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*Sensitive* He’s finally here - but now we have to have him over to the surgeons 💔 UPDATED

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UPDATE 3.6.22: I just wanted to say a massive thank you so much for all of the kind messages and words of support 🙏. Our beautiful boy survived 5.5 hours of open heart surgery on Wed. We we were told by the surgeons that “it went smoothly”, which was a huge relief. However, it is still very early days & he is currently in intensive care an induced coma for his own safety (which is so upsetting to see 💔). So the next few days will be critical for him. But we remain hopeful that we are one step closer to finally bringing our rainbow baby home 🌈❤️

So this is a pretty weird update to write. Who knows which group I’m supposed to post it in. Anyway, as I know people have asked to be updated I thought best to let people know that our beautiful son has arrived safely (via planned c section last Wed at 39 weeks). He has been in hospital ever since due to having a severe heart defect (TGA 🫀). He has been doing amazingly well considering. I have been expressing and he has been having it through a tube and putting on weight nicely, which we are hoping may help to prepare him for what’s to come. Tomorrow we have to hand him over to the surgeons who will perform major open heart surgery (arterial switch) for 4-5 hours in an attempt to fix his heart. We are obviously beside ourselves. So incredibly happy to have finally got our boy after so many years of trying 🌈 . Yet we are terrified of losing him. Please send all the positive vibes and luck our way for tomorrow. We are just hoping that our beautiful little fighter keeps doing what he does best ❤️

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Bteeldla

I’m so pleased that you’ve had a positive first week. It’s wonderful that he has put on weight. That is bound to give him more strength! I hope you’re recovering well from the c section. I’ve got everything crossed for you xxx

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JoP32

Oh my goodness lovely 🥺Massive congratulations on the safe arrival of your amazing boy! 💙🎉Sending you all the luck in the world for tomorrow. I cannot even begin to understand the terror you guys are facing right now & im so sorry you’re going through this. Absolutely everything will remain firmly crossed that the surgery is a success 🙏🤞🏻💕

I will be thinking of you

Xxx

Congratulations on the birth of your baby boy! All the best wishes to you all! I hope he gets through the surgery well and thrives afterwards! Crossing all my fingers and toes for you!

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KiboXX

Congratulations on his arrival 💙 I can’t even begin to imagine the worry you are going through right now and I just want to send you the biggest hug. If he’s even half the warrior his mum is then he’s going to do amazing. Got everything in the world crossed for you all xxx

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Fudge1980

Aww congratulations 💙 thanks for updating us. Sounds like a strong little boy already. I will thinking about you all tomorrow 🙏🏼😘

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Miracle43

Congratulations on your baby’s arrival 💙 I can’t begin to imagine what you are all going through.

Following your journey, I know that your son is a fighter just like you.

Have everything crossed for a successful surgery.

Sending big hugs and lots of positive thoughts. Take care lovely xx

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treezuk

Oh sweetie i cannot even begin to imagine how you are feeling his a beautiful little miracle and a fighter ❤️ I will be thinking of you all 🙏🏻

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FrancyItaly

Oh hun, congratulations on the arrival of your son. I pray for you and believe it will all go well! What a worrying time this must be for you! Sending you a huge hug and keep us updated 💗

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FrancyItaly in reply toFrancyItaly

Just so your update! While it is so upsetting to see your tiny sweet baby in an induced coma, the good news is the surgery went well and you will hopefully take him home very soon! Wishing him a speedy recovery. Please keep sending us updates! 🌈💙

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Ranchu90

Congratulations! Lots of love and support from me!! You are so loved and cherished little man!! Keep thriving ❤️🍀

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Cinderella5

This is amazing, I've been thinking about you!🤗🥰😘🥳 Spunds like your wee man is getting the best start from you and he's such a little fighter already!💪🏻 wishing you so much strength through his time in surgery. Lots of love to you all, give him a wee squeeze from me when you can.xxxx

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Babyrainbow

Congratulations 🥳🎉 Sending lots of love and prayers for the little warrior. Wishing you lots of strength through this time. ❤️🤞🏼🤗🌈

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Sweethear

Congratulations on the birth of you don. Like you said he is a fighter and he wil over come this just like he has over come many things to be here, wishing him a successful surgery and a fast recovery and wishing your family the strength and courage to be there for him and a healthy happy life together

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Hoop123

Congratulations!!! He's here! 🥳

Putting on weight is fantastic and will be helping him with the road ahead. You're doing such a great job, mumma. Sending allll the good thoughts I can for a smooth surgery and quick recovery. Xxx

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Fruitandflowers

Congratulations on the safe arrival of your little man ❤️ You and he have done amazingly. You must be beside yourself and not sure what to say other than all the wishes for the surgery and recovery and hopefully you'll all be home together soon xxx

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Sunflower35

Aww thank you for the update! So great to hear he has arrived. I hope the surgery goes very well and that you can relax a bit after that and enjoy more cuddles with him xxx.

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User20

Congratulations 🎊 💙Sending you lots of positive vibes. Your little man is a fighter.

Xx

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Star241

Oh my goodness, wishing you so much luck for the operation and it sounds like you are doing an amazing job so far xxx

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Millbanks

Your post makes me so emotional. ❤️💔

I can’t imagine how beside yourselves you must be.

I’m think of you all and sending all the love in the world. He’s already a fighter - he’s got this xxx

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Littlepeax

Congratulations amazing mummy 💙 🥰What a little fighter you have 💙 it sounds like he is in the best hands and these heart surgeons are another level ❤️ you are not alone Picalilli xxx thinking of you and your little bubs xxx

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ttcemmie

Congratulations! I'm so glad to hear he's doing well and best wishes for his surgery. Thinking of you. xxxxxxxxxx

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Keepingfaith85

You and your beautiful boy are in my thoughts. He sounds like a little fighter just like his mummy ❤️❤️❤️

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Solly-44

Oh love, what an crazy amount of emotions for you to process. Hugest congratulations on the arrival of your little one, I’ve been thinking of you guys lots! 💜

Sending you all the positivity, strength and hugs. Xxx

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Jonesy84

Massive congrats on the birth of your beautiful son!! Gosh I can't even imagine how tough tomorrow will be but as I have said before he is proving to be a strong soilder! I am sending all my positive thoughts and hugs to you to all xxx

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COAGMS

Congratulations and welcome to the world baby boy. You are so loved. I pray your surgery goes well and you are safely in your mum and dad’s arms soon. Xxx

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Chiefy

Congratulations on the birth of your boy xx sending so much love your way and hope that your son recovers well and is home with you as soon as possible xx

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Kels82

Thoughts are with you and your little family xxx you all can do this picalillii99 😘

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Jenniwenni

A MASSIVE good luck! I’m sending all my love, strength and angels your way. 💫🤞🙏🏿🦋 We’re with you. 😘😘😘

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LizzieBW

You are doing amazingly being able to provide your beautiful son such rich goodness through your breast milk, it'll be doing the world of good 💪 sending loads of love! Xx

So glad he was delivered safely, but my thoughts are with you at this trying time. I’m sure he’ll be in the best hands capable and I wish you all the best for forthcoming day(s) ❤️❤️❤️

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Italy300618

Aww lovely, congratulations on the arrival of your baby boy, what an ordeal you all have to go through, sending you all the positivity your way Praying the operation has gone well. 🙏🙏💙💙

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JenRoy

Huge congratulations!! What wonderful news. I know it will be so tough but he’s such a fighter.

I have total faith in the surgeons, anaesthetists, intensivists and nursing team! They’re world class and will get your little man through it. Keep staying strong, you’re such a super woman 💪.

Thinking of you all xx

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Pupster83

Congratulations and good luck! I can’t imagine what a rollercoaster it must be to have him here and then wait for him to go through surgery but it sounds like he is a strong wee guy so I hope it all goes well! Xx

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Petree86

Congratulations on little man's safe arrival and sending you love and strength whilst he undergo's the surgery. We are all here for you ❤️

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PepMo

All my best wishes and prayers for you! God bless the family❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Bozo_the_pumpkin

Oh Picalilli… a big congrats and all the best wishes and luck in the world for today. Your beautiful boy is a fighter just like his mama so just hold on to that.. he will get through this with flying colours and then you can start building your new lives.

Thinking of you and sending you positive vibes and big big hugs. Xxx

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Eternalwarrior

Hello amazing mother!!❤️ Reading this made me so emotional. Congratulations on the arrival of your baby boy! I have been thinking of you so much and sending you lots of strength and love ❤️ Your gorgeous son is a fighter and you are not alone. I hope the operation has gone well. Lots and lots of love and a BIG hug xxxx

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Picalilli99

I just wanted to say thank you all for the lovely messages! I would love to reply to each one but my head is so messed up right now it doesn’t feel like I can, but I wanted to say that I really appreciate them all and they have given me such a boost at this difficult time 🙏❤️

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Littlepeax in reply toPicalilli99

❤️🥰❤️ thinking of you lovely xxx

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Jenniwenni

So glad the read the surgery went well. 💙💪🌈 You are all amazing.

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Millbanks

I’m so happy to read your update. Sending much love xxx

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Solly-44

What a little champ! So glad surgery went well, must be beyond difficult to see him like this but sounds like he’s done amazingly with everything that’s been thrown at him. Sending out big wishes that he’s on the mend in no time xxx

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Char2383

Little man ❤️ This is great news he’s doing well after the surgery. One day at a time he will get stronger, sending him (and you and your partner) so much strength. Congratulations on your son! I hope you’re also recovering well lovely will be thinking of you xxx

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Cinderella5

I'm so happy to see your update!! Glad to hear all went well. Wishing you all lots of love. Your little fighter is just like his Mamma, absolute trooper!!I🥰🤗😘xxxx

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Littlepeax

So happy to see that all went smoothly ❤️❤️❤️ what an amazing brave little guy 🥰 you must be so proud. Lots of love and hugs Picalilli. Can't be easy at all for you but you are doing so well too xxx

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Jonesy84

What a tough little cookie he is! So glad to read it went smoothly. It’s just amazing as well what surgeons can do today. Every day now is a day of healing for him. Wishing your strong solider a speedy recovery and big hugs to you all too. I can’t imagine the stress you must all be feeling xxx

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Bozo_the_pumpkin

Wonderful news!!! … bless his little heart ❤️ I am so glad the operation went well.. and it being three days later now, I hope that he has been making steady progress. You’re almost there … good luck xxxx

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AMJean

Such a good update. Thinking of you all xx

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Trying1234

You are one strong 💪 mum. Praying that your precious boy grows from strength to strength xxx

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