2nd Miscarriage

[Elisabeta_rom]

We had 2nd miscarriage in 2 years. I'm shattered. Can't go through this pain anymore. My husband is still hopeful. I want to evaluate alternatives. We can't keep trying. My body will give up on me. I talked with him about other options and explained my worries. He's supportive but scared. He loves me a lot and wants the child to be ours. Our friends and family are very supportive. I can't think about facing this failure for third time. I want to have a child before my husband gives up hope. What should we do?

[lisababy]

Hi, I am sorry to hear about your loss. I am also in a similar situation where after painful multiple misses now looking to explore other alternatives. I just can't stop dreaming about having a baby. - Lisababy

[Elisabeta_rom in reply to lisababy]

I'm sorry to hear that. I really am. It's good to hear though that you're exploring alternatives. I'm contemplating. Not sure about alternatives. All kinds of thoughts cloud my mind. It's just too much to take. Few friends have suggested some sources. Whenever I open the links, my mind goes blank. I'm glad I could open up on this forum. Finding people with similar problems helps us recuperate faster. How are you exploring other options? Is your husband onboard with it? My husband is nice and I don't want to see him hurt again. I'll share my findings. Thanks again.

[lisababy in reply to Elisabeta_rom]

Hi Elisabeta, Yes it does help to know that we are not alone. Its so confornting to see your message. These forums really help us to discuss issues we would otherwise not open up ever. About my husband its the same as yours, I dont want to hurt him and also miss out the happiness because of me. He loves me a lot so does not say anything. More than I want to be a mother its for him that I would want to try. I am exploring options through internet and also fertility clinics. I will also share my findings and hope our wishes are fullfilled.

[Donatella_ita in reply to Elisabeta_rom]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss Elisa. It breaks my heart to see people suffering so much. A very dear friend of mine went through this misery 4 times. It was painful to witness. Your husband is understanding. That's a blessing. My friend was blamed for the child loss. It went so bad that her husband considered divorce. I can't imagine how shattered she'd have been. I was with her through it all. Her doctor suggested to consider alternative options. It was scary at first but she had no choice. Worst thing is she had to evaluate it all without any support from her husband. She's happy now though and has 2 beautiful daughters. I hope you also see similar happiness in your life soon. Let me know if I can be of any help to sort out the alternatives. Good luck and stay blessed!