2nd embryo transfer failed :-(

[alana-29]

Received our bloods results on Thursday after 2nd embryo transfer and have a HCG level of 9. Nurse told me that's a negative as should be over 50. However I've been told to continue with medication and go for further bloods next Thursday. Anyone else been in this position? I'm heart broken it's not worked again. Xx

[Hopeful1982]

Alana-29, I'm really sorry to hear this. It must be incredibly painful. Take good care of yourself x

[Hidden]

So sorry to this hun it's so sad 💔 my 3rd transfer was meant to start on the 14th of this month but couldn't get my injection so now need to wait for my period to come which thought was coming on Fri but still not hear so feeling sorry for myself how come you have to keep taking your medication I would phone and double check as I thought I had to keep taking mine but turns out I wasnt too sending big hugs xxxx

[alana-29 in reply to Hidden]

It's always the case isn't it, when we really want our period to come it's late. Fingers crossed it's here soon so you can get started. They said I was to continue as my levels were low but still a very slim chance it could be the embryo still trying to implant. I've done a hpt a week later and it was negative so I know I'm 100% not pregnant. I've just started bleeding really heavy today so I've not bothered taking anymore medication and phoned the hospital to confirm this. They advised this was fine. If you don't mind me asking what are your issues with infertility? You sound like your on the same kind of level as me. I will be onto my 3rd transfer after this failed attempt. Stay strong and I hope you have better luck this time round. Xxx

[Hidden in reply to alana-29]

Yeah defo always the same don't want them to come they do and when we need them to they seem to be so late on Fri I would have been starting my tablets if I just kept my mouth shut awww that's horrible hun bet there was a wee part of u that thought u were 😔 of course not I've got blocked tubes u? Thanks huni am hoping to go to Edinburgh tomorrow if they come as I want took in on day one if I can as they nurse told me I have just to let them no I was in 14th but couldn't get my injection xxxxx

[alana-29 in reply to Hidden]

I will keep everything crossed for you for 😚. Our problem is on my partners side. Low sperm count. We were told high percentage of pregnancy on first go so didn't expect to be in the same position after 2 attempts. Us girls just need to stay positive. Xxxx

[Hidden in reply to alana-29]

Does he beat himself up about it all such a shame I do hope it works for u both us ivf girls defo deserve some happiness after the journey we have to go through yip need to stay strong well most days doesn't feel like it tho I get so emotional with it all like we all do xxxxx

[alana-29 in reply to Hidden]

He feels terrible about it but we are such a supportive pair. I'm happy to do whatever it takes to try and have a baby. I was in today and bloods have came back at a negative for sure. I'm okay though. Glad to draw a line under it and move on. On a positive note the nurse said that it's a 1 in 3 chance with transfers so fingers crossed for us both. That's me until November now so we have booked a holiday for October. Did you get your injection today? Xxxx

[Hidden in reply to alana-29]

Yeah he will probably feel it's all his fault like I do myself aww hun am so sorry 😔 aww that's good ur trying to think positive oh lovely where are uz going thats wot me and my partner done booked when we had our 2nd fail no huni and one moody bitch today I don't get how on the 14th was day 21 but today is day 34 so over a month since last one and still not here getting all the cramp tho going to wait till maybe Fri and see if they come if they dont will phone tge doctor as that will go into September and they wanted to give me my injection in August xxxxxxx

[alana-29 in reply to Hidden]

We are going to Greece for a week. Aww don't blame yourself lovely. This is something complete out your control. It will happen one day but these things are sent to test us. Big hugs. Have you phoned the hospital to say your still not bleeding? They might want to scan you. Xxxxxx

[Hidden in reply to alana-29]

Awww that's lovely hun hopefully the holiday will relax you both a bit as I must say it did us I phoned this morning they just told me to wait till day 40 but sooooooo happy they came this afternoon so going in tomorrow morning to get my injection ☺ xxxxxxx