Hi I wrote a little while ago about putting my nearly 4 yr old back in nappies and about how embaressed I was, since doing this 3 or 4 weeks ago she has been in a nappy 24/7 and our home life has been so stress free. We have given up talking about using the potty and occasionally she will ask to sit on the potty in her nappy and do her business, obviously not Ideal but it's a step in the right direction. She is quiet big for her age and looks more 4 1/2 so if we are out and she has a big wee I will change her as it shows too much but struggle with using baby changing rooms as she is too big for the mat, how Have other with older children managed ?, we tried pullups but they leak and she got terrible nappy rash. My other big battle is my mother in law, she is dead against her being in a nappy and refused to take her out for the day unless she was in knickers and left her dreaded dummy at home (a battle for another day)Reluctantly I sent her out in knickers thinking "you see what I have to put up with". When she returned home my daughter was wearing a nappy and with a new dummy I wasn't suprised! However despite her doing this she will still mention without fail about her being too big for a nappy or dummy! How have others dealt with negative comments about being too old etc?