Next weekend my husband and I are going to a wedding on Saturday. I've got three people looking after our kids. We decided to give people one each! Easier to manage!!
My friend is having our five year old ( the one with daytime wetting).
I'm wondering whether to send her in normal pants which could mean several changes of pants and trousers. Or the padded pants which hold a small accident and Save the trousers but then it's not always noticeable that she's wet and she can be in wet smelly pants a while, Or whether to actually give my friend a worry free day and put her in pull-ups!! I don't usually do that!!! ( we've struggled on with her in pants for two and a half years) But I know how stressful it is trying to go out of the house and her weeing when a toilet isn't right next to her!! At least if she's in pull-ups my friend could just enjoy doing fun things with the girls ( my daughter, and my friends 5 year old daughter).
Does anyone else find it hard leaving an incontinent child with someone? School and preschool are one thing as there the staff are at least paid to do it!!! Also, it's easier as school has a toilet next to the classroom. it's when you start trying to go on fun trips out etc ( which I think my friend will) that it's really hard. I'm used to it as I've had two and a half years of it now!! But my friend is used to a daughter who doesn't wet or go stupidly often and can hold it til they reach a toilet!