Hi everyone,
I have finally decided to join and post... I had lower back pain around 8 months ago and thought I had injured myself. It passed but came back around february, always at the end of my period and sometimes lasting for days, hurting day and night. It really felt like menstrual pain, but in the lower back. The thing is, I've never had lower back pain during my period and I'm 34 now...
My GP tested my urine, because I felt weight on my bladder etc. but everything came back ok. My gynaecologyst did the yearly checkup in March, told me it was normal to feel pain, and, when told about endometriosis, said it was trendy. The results came back normal, but the pain also came back so I went back for a pelvic ultrasound mid-april and he found an ovarian cyst, highly suspecting it is an endometrioma, 2.5cm. From that moment as you can imagine I have been feeling very bad. I'm 34, single and I would like kids... I read that endometriomas = stage 4... and meanwhile, the pain came back monthly during my period/days afterwards. To exclude anything else, I did a blood analysis in case I had any vitamin deficiency, asked to look for any gluten intolerance, even did a stool analysis but they didn't find anything (I am regularly bloated, and my stool became very loose at the same time as the back pain started, sorry for those details). I went back to the gynaecologist last week and we agreed on a new ultrasound at the end of the summer to check the cyst. BTW: I did an ultrasound in 2021 and there was no cyst back then.
I'm not sure why I'm posting here. Maybe to get some testimonials of women who had the same and managed to have kids? Maybe for others to tell me it also happend suddenly for them? Can a small cyst cause strong symptoms? Is all this happening because I'm getting old? There is a "chance" that it might be a hemmorrhagic cyst and I cling to it... even though I don't think it could be the reason of all those symptoms.
Some info about me:
- I have been eating healthy for more than a year, and "improved" even more my diet now, trying to avoid inflammatory ingredients...
- I exercise regularly
- Retroverted uterus (which could somehow explain the sudden lower back pains even though I have it for years?!)
- Yearly, around the same time as my seasonal allergies, my period lasts longer during 3-4 months: I have brown discharge for 2-3 days then period 2 days then brown discharge 2-3 days. Actually, I'm not even sure when my real period starts anymore. Since I stopped the pill, my cycle is regular (I know when I ovulate, I have an app and it's always correct) BUT I started to hurt at the END of the period instead of the first two days like it used to. And when I say "hurt", it's some discomfort in the lower belly, and maybe strong pain 2 or 3 times a year, not like now.
- I thought about trying "seed cylcling" but not sure which seeds are actually good for me, and during which phase (can anyone help?)
- I believe there is something wrong with my hormonal balance ; I also started having migraine with auras since 2019 since I stopped taking the pill... Should I ask my doctor to test my hormone levels? I think endometriosis AND migraines have something to do with estrogenes... and also with stress (read below...)
My health has decreased since I started my new (stressful) job. I commute twice a week, 4 hours a day (this might have something to do with the back pain), am working on a computer the whole day... This month I had 2 weeks off (last holiday was in september...), and of course I felt much better. It made me realise my job might be the main reason why I feel like this. I really believe stress can impact our hormonal balance etc. I got my period during the weekend and my back started hurting on monday but it was not as bad as the last months and I didn't have to take any medicine. It lasted only monday. So, 2 weeks without the laptop, walking all day long, away from a place which challenges me emotionally really helped. Of course I'm looking for another job but it takes time... and well, I had a migraine with aura yesterday, not even 3 days after getting back to work...
Thanks for reading, sorry for writing so much, I hope some of you will have the patience to read me. Please forgive any mistake, as English is not my native language.
Have a good evening