Hi everyone,
I had a private diagnostic lap in May because I had two areas of pelvic pain, one on the right side and one across the front of my pelvis. I couldn’t wait any more for NHS as it was getting worse so I used my savings. They found superficial endo and removed it - so now the pain on my right side has gone which is amazing. However the other pain across the front of my pelvis is still there! And getting worse every month. I’m back to having pain every day.
Finally got to see the NHS consultant after waiting 18 months for an appointment, she immediately discharged me with a prescription for the mini pill and told me it was either the surgery or a urology problem and not anything she could help with. Didn’t have the energy to fight the hospital to reverse the discharge so I paid to see the private consultant who did my surgery and he said it could be Adenomyosis (at my suggestion), but as we are looking to have kids soon there isn’t much point getting a diagnosis as treatment is minimal if you want kids. He also said that it could be unexplained pelvic pain that clears up with pregnancy. There was no endo in that area and he didn’t see any evidence of adeno when he did the surgery.
All the adeno symptoms I have read online and on this forum are the same as mine. Would appreciate any advice from people who have been diagnosed! Or any who had ‘unexplained pelvic pain’ and never got a diagnosis.
-inflammation and hot pain across front of pelvis (constant ache)
-feels like muscular pain at front of my bladder when I need a wee, sometimes I don’t even need a wee it just feels like it (but only around my period)
-pain builds leading up to my period for ten days or so.
- pain is really intense first few days of my period, but then continues to build again for another week-ish.
-bloating so much I can’t fit in my clothes (whenever the pain is bad)
-painful sex around the time of my period
-when I’m in pain and I apply pressure every thing feels sore and tender.
-increased pain around ovulation (never had this before)
-I’ve noticed that it’s all much worse at the end of the day, maybe because I’m tired?
We are planning to start trying to get pregnant next month, but being in pain all the time and bloated like a balloon doesn’t put me in the mood! I’m feeling lost and would appreciate any advice or shared experiences.
Thank you so much xx