Just a vent post really but explicit topic. Sorry. Having the week off work and after a fairly dry spell my husband and I booked a date night in a local b and b. He even bought pink fizz and a lovely bubble bath. Till now it's been a case of finding the right angle discretely and ignoring the discomfort that follows. But it seems things have moved on. Recently a post coital cystitis like allergic like bladder reaction. But this time the next stage seems to have become that now any entry, any angle is properly painful. Hubby tells I'm distracted gets frustrated and the upshot was one big row and a ruined romantic meal instead of a lovely date and Hubbys rants including suggestions of leaving. We've talked since and he understands better and is generally supportive but its left me feeling emotionally battered and insecure. Especially as unexpectedly a cancellation consult happened the next day, with my 3rd and more painful internal exam. Just demoralised and struggling now. On top of the perpetual fatigue and tons of job pressure on top of it all.
How have other people coped with the relationship strain and physical issues??