Hi everyone, i really need advice. I just had a laparoscopy to remove severe endometriosis. I had chocolate cysts, endo infront and behind my uterus on my ovaries, you name it, the only good thing was that my fallopian tubes were not blocked.
I just turned 32 and not really ready for kids but my gynae has informed me that i have a window of one year to fall pregnant naturally incase the endo comes back, I'm married and now that i know i may struggle to fall pregnant it has made me realise how much i want kids, so this experience has been life changing so to say.....but here's the thing. My best friend and i already booked a 1 month trip for the end of April to the USA ( we have wanted to do this for 20 years and it finally worked out) i really, really want to go BUT with all this going on i feel i am wasting 4 months of falling pregnant. I don't want to travel whilst being pregnant either. My husband is not happy with me going at all and i sort of feel i should leave things up to fate...if i fall pregnant i will cancel my trip and if i don't then what is the harm in me going? I'm not sure when I'll get to go again but am i really stupid to want to go?
What would you do?