Those kind enough to have followed my short time on the forum may recall my last post, only a few days ago, where I said hubby was refusing all further medical interventions and wanted to die with dignity at home.Readers, he fulfilled his final wish, he died yesterday morning peacefully. I was with him at the end. No one expected it so quickly, and I am absolutely rocked to the core, but his days of suffering, mental and physical are over.
RIP Joe xx
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Really sorry for your loss, be assured you fought a good fight for him and did all you could. It's so, so sad that the demon drink claims another soul.You make sure to look after yourself and make the absolute most of your life going forward. As you say he's now at peace.
I’m so sorry to hear your sad news . From your posts you’ve been so supporting and loving - and he came home which is what he wanted .my thoughts are with you . Sending love Carol x
Oh I am so sorry to hear this, you have had such a hard time and have been such a rock for him and a real advocate. I am so glad that he got to be at home, as he wanted and I am sure that was so comforting for him and you did so amazingly well at supporting him with love and compassion. Sending you lots of love xx
Oh “sweetheart” …… that’s meant in so many ways but mostly as it’s a true description of you. Care, support, love and compassion all jumped up from the posts you so beautifully scripted.
I am so sorry to read this, having gone through this myself just last week I know how you are feeling right now. Words cannot express sufficiently what I would like to say, but know that you have been his absolute rock, support and loving wife. Take baby steps going forward and don't do like I did and try do too much too soon. If you ever want to chat/virtual cry/scream together, please message me anytime.
My condolences, have only just seen this post you have written. I followed your journey with hubby.. you were so so very brave and supportive.. he is at peace now .
I am overwhelmed by your news. I am so sorry to hear that he passed away so suddenly. I can't share your pain but you have my admiration for your courage and my heartfelt hope that your healing will be one encouraged by memories of happier times that you shared together.
I’m so sorry to hear this. You did all you could to look after him and ensure his final wishes were granted. Please do now take time to look after yourself. Big hugs x
I am so very hear to read you have lost your husband and know how broken you will feel. Just remember he is at peace now and take time to mourn for yourself. People on here are there for you whenever you need to talk x
I only came across your recent post by accident as I am still subscribed on here despite my husband passing nearly a year ago. My heartfelt love and wishes are with as you navigate this new world we didn't want to be part of. It is shocking and horrific but you will survive by taking baby steps being kind to yourself and listening to your gut. I didn't believe I'd make it through this last year. If you would like to ever chat/ message ease feel free to do so xx
so sorry to hear your news, but as you say he is at peace and went with dignity. Now it’s time that you think of yourself so please take care, the wife and my thoughts are with you 💕
I’m so sorry. We never think it’s going to happen so soon. There’s never enough time. I’m glad you were with him and that will give you some comfort in the days ahead. Sending you a big hug and the strength to get you through. Kirsty x
I just now caught up on the events of the last week. What a shock to you, all happening so quickly. My heart goes out to you. As everyone has stated, please be kind to yourself. And please keep in touch so we know how you're doing. ❤️
I am so so sorry to be reading this, take it easy on yourself, do what you need to do, not what others think you should be doing, take it day by day, baby steps. Please be kind and go easy on yourself.
Know that you did everything you could, and you’ve both been through a very difficult time.
Time for you to start to heal and rebuild going forward and you can do it, and you will get through it, sending love and strength xx
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