Just moaning

[1football]

One of them days

Well today I got back into work albeit for 5 hours as really can’t handle waiting for that call again and feel like I’ve been hit with a sledge hammer aching all over and where they did the gas test on my wrist ( well I think that’s what they did) is still black & blue and throbs.

Moan over

Hope everyone is as well as can be

Huw

[Hidden]

Hi

You aren't moaning, after what you've been through you've every right to have your say!! Take care Lynne

[1football in reply to Hidden]

Thanks Lynne

[Hidden in reply to 1football]

You are very welcome

[Chelle_]

Last time they did arterial

Bloods from me it was from

My ear lobe; razor blade and some deep heat. Like being back in the 1960’s lol!! I’m not surprised your heads in a strange place, you and Donna need to get back into the swing of life and as everyone says forget about it (easier said than done).....try and keep your chin up x

[1football in reply to Chelle_]

Chins you mean lol

Thanks chelle

[1football in reply to Chelle_]

Sounds like you been through the wars there chelle lol

[Hope-feb3-2017]

Hi Huw, let me remind you that you are human! Not a robot - what you and Donna have been through is absolutely heart breaking. I agree with Lynne your not moaning you are talking - doing exactly what you are supposed to do. Talk about your feeling what you are going through, they are in fact real and true. I have read over and over the wonderful positive posts you send to everyone and help them. It's ok to need help to, some encouragement and maybe a few laughs (if I new a joke off the top of my head I would tell you one ...lol). My time waiting was in the hospital so it was a bit different. My husband would say to me - I have a good feeling Tuesday will be the day- Tuesday would come nothing. Then he would say - I have a good feeling Friday will be the day - Friday would come nothing You get the picture. Take this time to do something that reminds you of the love/bond you have with your partner. Whatever that might be is up to you (silly, funny, emotional) something that makes you both smile - how about holding hands. Just like Chelle said easier said than done. It's hard it's very hard keep moving forward and keep your hope going!!!! I say this a lot 'Never say Never' . keep positive take care Huw.

[1football in reply to Hope-feb3-2017]

That’s lovely thanks ever so much,I am very possitive and realise that in fact am very lucky to have support from not only family & friends also in this wonderful site where I/we know that here people really know what it’s like and it does help so much so thankyou once again and also to everyone who takes the time to read my and Donna’s posts

Huw x

[Hope-feb3-2017 in reply to 1football]

That's what I love about this place as well. I'm glad to hear you have a strong support system. I agree to talk to someone who has been or IS going through the same thing as you means a lot -they GET it. If I can help in anyway happy to. Ask any questions and I will give you my experience. ... Have a good day today!!!!!

[Kristian]

Your wrist will be black and blue for a while unfortunately, i think mine took about 2 months to disappear. I was considering doing some horror movie hand modelling for a time but it did eventually go.

[1football in reply to Kristian]

Now there’s a thought (hahaha) but your right it does seem to be taking its time never know a bruise like it

[jojokarak]

Your definitely entitled to moan and I glad I did so much on here because after transplant even though you don't forget what you go through it lessens the thoughts and feelings over time and because life isn't smooth sailing neither is recovery for everyone it's like my online diary to remind myself I got some through hard shit and I still here .... We understand so get it off the chest x