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~ having baby in exactly 4 weeks (well due date is);

~other half in America and nervous I will go in labour early and he misses it

~ decided to have our wedding in September

~May move to America for few months with other half while we decide where we want to reside

~ so used to having support and network in UK that I’m getting overwhelmed about so many changes.

* on the plus, support I have now is helpful so I guess living in the moment is the best way right now :-/

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Do you know / will you have anyone else for support while living in america? x

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Starlight_ftm in reply to Craven18

I have friends I’ve made out there but other half would be my main source of support. Here I see Perinatal mental health team, specialist mental health midwife, health visitor specialising in mental health, psychologist every Wednesday, they would continue this too. My GP is very supportive. The closer I am to giving birth the more I’m hesitant about leaving England now. That may change when I see other half next week and perhaps it’s the comfort and security I’m craving because his finances have gone downhill since his company have messed up his paychecks since January! I get an income here but if move I won’t. On other hand I find self more confident over there as I can be my own person in the house, and will be lovely having baby and him and the cat lol altogether x

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