in real trouble

[Shelleynitsche]

It's been 2 years but me and my husband are not able to conceive a baby, I really sad and deeply hurt really don't know what to do to myself. Have been to different doctors and all of them said that this is incurable which makes me even more lonely, as a child is everything to a mother. Me and Husband both thinks we are infertile and will never be able to have a baby. Even the nature is against us we can't adopt a children as per the laws. I think i will be ending up my life. ultimately...

[kristenbeans]

No you’re not asking for too much, as a women you feel incomplete and a child is something that completes a women and her life, don’t feel so sad and frustrated. This is the moment when you and your husband have to be together. till the end of a life support each other and try and be happy. There will be even something that makes you feel better.we cant say that the all the problem is infertility and this may happen because of a lot of reasons. Taking too much stress and other things. Taking proper advice from your olders and suggestion might help you in having a baby.

[Shelleynitsche in reply to kristenbeans]

Thanks kristen for your kind words but you really can't understand my problem, i feel so lonely and no one's there to support me. My husband thinks i m the one who is infertile but i m not sure if i m the one who is having this problem, We went to different doctors and specialist for this purpose but were not able to identify the issue. I would really end up my life and i m not any more interested in living in this world. There is so much sadness within me which i can't express right now.

[kristenbeans in reply to Shelleynitsche]

no no, what are you talking? are you gonna mad? don't loose hope Shelleynitsche . nowadays, science developed many ways for this. have you try specialist for this infertile problem? and yeah i really feel sad for you and it deeps inside but please don't loose hope. trying trying and trying again. and sometimes too much stress might be a reason.

[Shelleynitsche in reply to kristenbeans]

Me and my husband both are infertile we can't have a baby of our own, such a shame it is. For this reason my husband is not giving me any attention and i can not tolerate this. Why is the nature so cruel towards me why can't i have a baby why me? When i see parents playing with their babies i fall into tears and i can not stop myself. I want a baby to laugh cry in my hands. I can't wait any long please anyone can tell me what m i doing wrong what are the reasons behind all this? M i really infertile?

[kristenbeans in reply to Shelleynitsche]

Some causes in males: Oligospermia, oligo-astheno-teratospermia, asthenospermia, azoosepermia, atrophy of testes, undescended testes, VDRL reactive, bilateral varicocele, impotency, antisperm antibody, congenital absence of vas deferens, etc. have you any one of them cause found in your husband?

Some causes in females: Unexplained cause, PCOD, tubal block, anovulatory cycles, missed abortion, hypothyroidism, endometriosis, IUGR, dyspareunia, TORCH positive, PID, septate uterus, cervical polyps, fibroid, ovarian tumors, premature ovarian failure, hypogonadism, cervical incompetence, molar pregnancy, unicornuate/bicornuate uterus, secondary amenorrhea, cervicitis, bulky uterus, repeated abortions, hypoplastic uterus, adhesions from previous surgery, etc. do you have any one of them ?

[Shelleynitsche in reply to kristenbeans]

I havn't heard of all these terms as i m really weak at medical terms can you explain me the terms with reasons? Oligospermia, oligo-astheno-teratospermia, asthenospermia, azoosepermia, atrophy of testes, undescended testes, VDRL reactive, bilateral varicocele, impotency, antisperm antibody, congenital absence of vas deferens, So you are telling me my husband will be having any of there diseases that's why we are not able to conceive a baby?

Or the other disease that you are telling me is in me and i m the one who is infertile? Unexplained cause, PCOD, tubal block, anovulatory cycles, missed abortion, hypothyroidism, endometriosis, IUGR, dyspareunia, TORCH positive, PID, septate uterus, cervical polyps, fibroid, ovarian tumors, premature ovarian failure, hypogonadism, cervical incompetence, molar pregnancy, unicornuate/bicornuate uterus, secondary amenorrhea, cervicitis, bulky uterus, repeated abortions, hypoplastic uterus, adhesions from previous surgery,

Kindly reply accordingly

[kristenbeans in reply to Shelleynitsche]

Terms oligospermia and oligozoospermia refer to semen with a low concentration of sperm and is a common finding in male infertility. Often semen with a decreased sperm concentration may also show significant abnormalities in sperm morphology and motility (technically oligoasthenoteratozoospermia). There has been interest in replacing the descriptive terms used in semen analysis with more quantitative information.

Asthenozoospermia (or asthenospermia) is the medical term for reduced sperm motility. Complete asthenozoospermia, that is, 100% immotile spermatozoa in the ejaculate, is reported at a frequency of 1 of 5000 men. Causes of complete asthenozoospermia include metabolic deficiencies, ultrastructural abnormalities of the sperm flagellum (see Primary ciliary dyskinesia) and necrozoospermia

this is the answer of your husband infertility.

[kristenbeans in reply to kristenbeans]

Uterine hypoplasia is a congenital disorder, meaning it is present at birth. It occurs when the uterus fails to fully develop in the fetus. The cause of this abnormal fetal development is not yet known.

A unicornuate uterus represents a uterine malformation where the uterus is formed from one only of the paired Müllerian ducts while the other Müllerian duct does not develop or only in a rudimentary fashion. The sometimes called hemi-uterus has a single horn linked to the ipsilateral fallopian tube that faces its ovary

Secondary amenorrhea is when a woman who has been having normal menstrual cycles stops getting her periods for 6 months or longer. Women who are pregnant, breastfeeding, or in menopause are not considered to have secondary amenorrhea.

These symptoms are not specific to either endometriosis or adenomyosis and when present, one or both conditions may be present. The finding of the glandular material in the uterine wall may cause the uterus to become enlarged (called hypertrophy) and sometimes doctors use the term 'bulky uterus

this is the answer of female infertility!

[Shelleynitsche in reply to kristenbeans]

We both had checkups with the doctors? they just didn't told me all these things, i think they might not be knowing all these things i have wasted my money and time, plus i have been left in deepest sadness and was not able to even talk to anyone about it, as it is a shame in the society and people really don't respect people like us. they start calling you out with different names and we were in really stress. So should i create new hope in my heart for seriously having a baby of my own.. What are your suggestion regarding this?

[katebuckwell]

It is not a thing you need to worry this much about. The field of medical is so advanced these days and they developed a very different way to getting a baby. it has brought solutions to every problem. this problem is not such a big deal these days.. You must consult to some good specialists for the same problem. because i know what is the feeling for a woman when she don't get baby. I was suffering from the same problem. Worrying became a habit then and I was also unable to gather my life around. Then someone told me about the medical treatments for the same. With referring to specialists and doctors, I was able to cure this problem. So what I would say here is that it is not as big problem as you see it. It has many solutions, you only need to get to a best consultant from a doctor. It will make you to get through this. And if not you will for sure see something that will guide you to get over this problem.

[Shelleynitsche in reply to katebuckwell]

So can you tell me what are these advanced technologies which i m not aware of because where i live i m not able to search these technologies, as i have went to different doctors and specialist which i found all of them are were like we are not able to do it,.. Kindly tell me these technologies which are available their are these technologies affordable ? as where i live it is quite difficult finding these kind of proper technologies and doctors who can provide me such as my own baby. So i can live my life happy with a hope and creating a new life within me and every thing will be back to normal...

[Alexa007]

Hello, Shelleynitsche. I am really touched dear and I totally understand your pain. Dear ending a life just for not having a baby doesn't make sense. You will end up hurting your husband family only. The first thing I notice in this post is where you said all doctors said this is incurable. I would like to ask where are you living I mean city or country. because this is totally insane. Science has evolved a lot in last century and there is nothing incurable. Not even cancer. All you need to do is look for a good doctor. there are many clinics or institutes that assure a healthy pregnancy. If you can come to my country you will find many. Just have patience.

[Shelleynitsche in reply to Alexa007]

Hello, really appreciate your support for me, and only a women can understand my pain, i have lost my respect infront of my husband and i m really not able to look into his eyes as i see angry and sadness both in his eyes, A baby everything for a family and it completes a family, not only a husband and wife, as people say a child is like a bridge between the husband and wife, If there are issues between them a child can be the reason to solve all these, as now i have been ignored by my husband not getting any kind of love.. I hope there is a cure to it. can you let me know about the services? of the institute? that can help me with my issue

[cleasmith]

Really sorry to hear about your loss, as their are different methods to evaluate about your reproductive system in order to explore the underlying reasons for the infertility, By the way infertility is not an incurable disease there are ways like Laparoscopy is a minor technique which encompasses a small incision in the subject's abdomen through which a peculiar endoscope can be infiltrated in the uterus, ovaries and fallopian tubes, If any kind of abnormailities are reported, it can be controlled through laser vaporization, excision biopsy or electrocautery. Therefore, you can ask about this opinion from your gynecologist and certainly turn odds in your favor and conceive normally. So dont worry about it as there are many other ways to do it to.

[katebuckwell]

yes, these all technologies are affordable. as well as these technologies will surely help you and one day you will be able to getting a new baby and your whole family will be happily live again. let me tell you about the advanced technologies of science regarding to infertility.

The idea is that by harvesting and preserving a woman's eggs when she's younger to use when she's older, science can mostly get around the natural effects of aging.

Also, the medical procedure about egg freezing is becoming a mainstream that some of the companies are offering as a standard health benefit, it's still invasive and expensive. And it doesn't guarantee a woman will become pregnant with her frozen eggs when she uses them in the future.

[Shelleynitsche in reply to katebuckwell]

My age is around 26, are there any options that these kinds of issues occur in this young age? or is this a family genetic issue? as i know there are no such cases in my family from my side, is there a possibility that my husband might have these issues in their family? My sperms are not that strong enough to create a baby? i thought that a females sperms are more used in this process and as the baby is in the worm of the women this should be more responsible on the mother? I m just so depressed and in pain that i really want a baby of my own.. So how can i activate these frozen eggs inside me?

[katebuckwell]

for my opinion your age doesn't matter. normally 22- 27 is the age that 95% of the women become pregnant. might be your all problem is related with your husband family members.

[Shelleynitsche in reply to katebuckwell]

I feel you know how can i get my problem solved kindly let me the solutions and options through which i can have my problems solved and can live a happy life?

[katebuckwell]

you can activate the frozen in your inside by a round of hormone injections is receives by a woman that stimulate the ovaries to create multiple of eggs. This stage involves again and again visits to the fertility clinic, about five in 10 days, while the ovaries are on a regular basis monitored by vaginal ultrasound. After roughly a week or two of hormone treatments, the eggs are retrieved

[Shelleynitsche]

Is this a safe procedure? How many this process so fast? are you really sure about this? What if this process would affect my health really bad? and i would suffer with some serious issues? Does these hormones injections affect any other parts of the body rather then vagina?

[katebuckwell]

there are many solutions for infertility. maybe there are two case studies who describes the women living style conditions and their perceptions of infertility. the solutions is to the infertility such as foster-children and, polygyny-as well as different biomedical therapies including In-vitro Fertilisation (IVF) .

[cleasmith]

Well I completed the treatment and am feeling about 95% better. I am very optimistic that I'm on the road to full recovery though. Thank you for helping me with my illness as I am conviced that the herbs helped in some way. Here is some great news, my wife is pregnant with our first child. We found out about 10 days ago. We are very excited and are hoping for an easy pregnancy and a healthy baby. God bless sincere