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What a question we ask ourselves when something bad happens is ---WHY ME??.WHAT HAVE I DONE TO DESERVE THIS??

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Well, 2stroke it's a natural reaction to think 'why me' to any painful situation, trouble is, it doesn't help one bit! I'm sure everyone goes through something painful in their lives at some stage, it's life I'm afraid.

Chloe

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Knotty

Hi 2stroke

You may have asked the question but you must know the answer. You probably didn't "deserve" all those good times you had either. That isn't to say there are no consequences to the choices we make in life: there can be painful consequences sometimes but those don't include being left as bereft as you have been feeling.

Knotty

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Thanks Knotty

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