I thought I would start a new thread - expecially with Tamirra asking for tips for her daughter.
Long before I was diagnosed I went off soaps and shampoos.
For myself I found a product called Dermaveen worked best (based on oatmeal).
One dermatologist recommended I start using it (had already been on it for a couple of years).
Hope that helps (I think scented soaps would probably aggravate genital ulcers).