Hello!
Me and my partner we are positive with chlamydia. I don’t understand how we get it, without have sex with somebody else. Me I don’t believe on him and he doesn’t believe on me, he is accusing me like he got it from me, because he didn’t have never problems. We had symptoms but i catched first. I took it treatment I finished, but my partner no, so after that we had sex. We spoke with the sexual health clinic and they recommended to start again the treatment both of us. So we started for me is the second time. My question is can the gynaecologist find out if one of us went with somebody else from the cells or any analysis testing, he wants to do every analysis to find if I had sex with somebody else.I told him I’m ready to do everything, but have chances to find out this or how or from who we got it.
Please I need this help because I’m going again back to the depression from this story.
No there is no test which can tell which partner had chlamydia first , I'm afraid. Consider relationship counselling if it continues to be an issue. Both men and women can have it with no symptoms. Did either of you have chlamydia testing before this ?
Thank you for the reply Galen.No never I didn’t have any infection.
I was afraid from him because he was married and he had anal sex with her and that time we was together and also she use to take a treatment but I don’t know for what. I don’t understand. He said he wants to do cells analysis to see if I cheated on him, but is not me I didn’t went with somebody else. 😔😔
I think the cell analysis he is talking about is an empty threat. I don’t think it exists.
I don’t know I’m really very bad mentally, 4 days now he is just accusing me. I really didn’t do anything to say I cheated on him.