So I got into a new relationship this year (I was clean, wasn't carrying any STI's the last time I had unprotected sex was in January 2016 and I was tested around March 2016 and October 2016 and all tests were negative so I know I was negative. I hadn't had unprotected sex this year either). Anyway I started seeing a new guy this year we were having protected sex (I rarely have unprotected sex due to the fear of catching an STI), we had unprotected sex ONCE around end of July this year. He told me he was clean I asked repeatedly and he confirmed I had nothing to worry about and he was clean.
We broke up and I got tested I tested positive for Chlamydia! I was soo shocked I have never had an STI felt so disgusted and upset. My ex had lied to me. I approached him about this and he pinned it on me and became very verbally abusive and told me it was me and that I had it to begin with (I have copy of all my historic tests which have always been negative). I told my ex to drop the act and come clean and tell me what else he has. The responses I have received from him clearly show he doesn't care and from what I can gather he knew he's positive and has intentionally passed me Chlamydia. He told me the last time he had unprotected sex was with his ex in 2015! How could a person be carrying Chlamydia and not be treated for it? I have begged him to tell me what else he has and he is being a complete jerk about it. I have this feeling he may also have HIV I am sooooooo worried now, I can't sleep, I'm awaiting my test results. I'm so shocked at how disgusting my ex has turned out to be how can someone sabotage someone's medical health like this!! I have no idea what I'm going to do if I turn out to be HIV positive now I honestly see it as a death sentence and have no idea how I'll survive. I just wish I could go back in time and not get together with my ex! The stress this stupid short lived relationship has caused is unbelievable it wasn't worth it.
Any words of support would be appreciate!