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How do i tell my new partner i have herpes with out loosing her ??

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This is a tricky one.

You might lose her, but if you handle it properly and assure her that you won't stray again and that you know how foolish you have been, and tell her how much she means to you. You must tell her, soon, maybe she will forgive you, but probably not if you don't tell her and eventually she finds out then all trust will be gone and so will she.

I can only wish you good luck.be prepared for fireworks, tears and lots of questions. Be honest, don't blame it on anybody else, you,ll have to take it I,m afraid.

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J4ck in reply toOlivemay64

I got it from an ex and a year ago and ive never had to break it to anyone 😂

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Olivemay64 in reply toJ4ck

Ah, that's different. Sorry, I assumed too much.

Just break it gently. It need not make any difference to your relationship.if she is for you all will be well.

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If you want to talk this through / practice then phone the herpes viruses association helpline and have a chat with them.

herpes.org.uk/

0845 123 2305 at times between 9 am and 9 pm on different days – or 020 7607 9661 Monday to Friday, 12 noon to 8 pm.

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Its okay and no its just difficult just hard to manage sometimes and the thought of loosing someone you love is f#cked up thank you

yo when I had herpes I just told my bf straight he basically, got mad then realised he had it so it was chill. Still together and have five kids and a pug called pouuuuggg.

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