herpes

[jonish]

guys help me.. my gf had been diagnosed with herpes (genital).. i am worried now... if she got herpes , only chance is that i have one.... is there another chance of getting a genital herpes...???

[DrCupidCare]

There is a great chance of spread of herpes if you are involved in vaginal intercourse

[jonish in reply to DrCupidCare]

sir its not that i get herpes... where did she probably get that from...???

[Sask in reply to jonish]

If u are not sleeping with anyone else and there is no chance u got it from someone before you were with this girl then u will have got it from her and she has either slept with someone else while with u or she slept with someone before u and caught it off them without knowing. I suppose the advice is get checked every time you start a new relationship or get tested regularly of u are not in along term relationship and you are sexually active (one night stands for example) or just wear a condom!!! Hope this helps .

[Sask in reply to jonish]

If u are not sleeping with anyone else and there is no chance u got it from someone before you were with this girl then u will have got it from her and she has either slept with someone else while with u or she slept with someone before u and caught it off them without knowing. I suppose the advice is get checked every time you start a new relationship or get tested regularly of u are not in along term relationship and you are sexually active (one night stands for example) or just wear a condom!!! Hope this helps .

[jonish in reply to Sask]

i know she hadn't had any previous relations.... then how on earth did she get one...??

[Tulip2016]

Hiya, I would also like to add that genital herpes can lay dormant on your body for years before getting a breakout so unless you had been previously tested herpes either of you could have caught it a long time ago.

[jonish in reply to Tulip2016]

ya this was what i exactly wanted.... i also would like to know if there is any other possibilities to get this infection, excluding by birth and sexual transmission....

[Tulip2016 in reply to jonish]

No, only skin to skin contact.

The virus does not survive when on clothing, toilet seats etc.

[jonish]

then how could she got that ????? i know she had no relations previously... probably may be by birth then......

[jonish]

now i seriously think that she got herpes fro me.... but i don't have any blisters or other symptoms of this.... any idea...????

[Franjanu]

If you have had sex then you will both have it.

BUT depending on your immune system only when it is low will it come. So you do have the virus all the time but it won't show as herpes breakout all the time. If you get what I mean.