I don't know if me and my girlfriend should have sex

[Dhunt-874]

We have been going out for 3 months now and we are thinking about having sex but we are not shore if it's the right thing to do we are only 16 any advice going

[RankAmateur]

The fact you ask - rather than jumping right in - is very responsible...

The only advice is... talk about it... it's not a 'taboo' subject, and it's something to enjoy... not forgetting, *of course*, the usual warnings about not getting pregnant, or STIs...

Take it step-by-step. There's no rush. It's a voyage of discovery... oh - and make sure you laugh about it, together...

[Hmm-]

If your both mutually ready. But know it is a big step and does change the dynamics of a relationship.....

Make sure I talk about it. Don't expect it to be like a porn show. Take it slow and show her respect.

Tbh the first time ain't really that great a lot of fumbling and trying to impress when really your both as lost as each other.

BTW TAKE ENTRY SLOW ITS A KILLER

[Hidden]

People will try and tell you this is a magical moment and a big deal... they are wrong/delusional.

Sex is basically 2 meat sacks rubbing against each other for mutual enjoyment. You'll probably be bad at it but don't worry the other party will almost certainly be bad too but you're both too inexperienced to know the difference anyway.

Remember STI's. Especially the worst one of all... children!

[Eleanor1234]

Be safe and enjoy darling - don't worry x

[Sandpit]

Well the first few times are rubbish so you have to keep practicing, but above all laugh about it together.

[Coolchick12]

If u are both ready.and use condoms