Pneumonia, decisions,decisions.

[2greys]

I am giving the holiday real serious consideration, I have just today to make the commitment to go.

Prednisolones do affect my mind, which of course I am currently taking and trying to battle with superman thoughts and common sense is absolutely nutty . I have done this sort of holiday man times before, and know exactly what to expect. Nowhere is actually very far from civilisation, the rivers are very slow hence very twisty, you can sail for many miles but as the crow flies that could be just a couple of miles only. But the coastguard helicopter is needed because it is all marshes, hardly any roads. Michael is also 26 now and a grown independent man so should be be able to take on the responsibility, I will also be on hand for advice if required and to prepare him to take his own crew at a later date (which is his desire, like father, like son).

As mentioned by a couple of members if I do go then it will also give me a boost to my sense of well being which is much needed at the moment. I have been carrying on living my normal life for the last 3 1/2 years as if nothing is wrong with me. Even getting breathless was semi normal as I have always whizzed about at top speed and obviously my lungs where on the downward slope long before being diagnosed and still smoking. I have now hit the proverbial brick wall, that logically had to happen at some point. Luckily, I have bounced back with a lesson learned.

Just a 2 1/2 day admission to, which to my mind, for "community acquired pneumonia" was damned short. I will not be washing Sharon's work clothes anymore as one of the consultants agreed that it could be the likely source of my infection.

I am still very inclined to go, despite still actually having Pneumonia still under treatment, because I know just how warm, cozy and comfortably it is below, not going will damage my mental well being with extreme disappointment.

It has been extremely hard trying to organise holidays, as most of you know, not knowing how their health will be well into the future. One saving grace is that I do not plan on going abroad again, having done it all as a teenager.

One very good piece of news given by the consultant was that he told me the X-Ray taken to diagnose the pneumonia, also showed the cancer tumour is still stable so happy days there

[Whitechinchilla]

That’s a tough call 2greys.

Wish you well whatever your decision.

😌

[Whitechinchilla]

This springs to mind.....CARPE DIEM

😊

[2greys in reply to Whitechinchilla]

A brilliant summing up and aptly put. Although it does not help with the dilemma I have.

[HungryHufflepuff]

Definitely good news about your tumour. As for your holiday. If it was me (which it isn’t!) I would go. I know if it was me and I decided to not go, it would get me down. If I went it would give me a boost. It sounds like you’ll be warm and dry, with option of directing operations if necessary, rather than doing all the hard physical work. And the food will be great! You have all the facts and can see the whole bigger picture, though it may be a steroid blurred one, and if you can’t go, you can’t go, and that’s different. But, if it’s a matter of choice, I would say go for it. But I wish you a continued good recovery whatever you decide 👍

[Chabella]

Mr Greys I know it is hard to plan a vacation but still you can do it another time. I think that you should get some rest and take care of yourself.

I am so very happy for the news about the cancer tumor.

Thank you for letting us know and hearing from you !

please take care you are so precious

Lots of love from Greece

[HungryHufflepuff]

By the way, where I live, the only way to get to the hospital is by coastguard helicopter. So whether it’s a child with a broken arm, a mum in premature labour, someone having a heart attack or whatever it is, the helicopter is called out. And people live here! Don’t let that deter you from your holiday 🚁

[2greys in reply to HungryHufflepuff]

Oh no I wont. I know exactly how good the Cromer & Sherington Coastgaurd are and have seen them in operation quite a few times over the years, and not one of my concerns. Thanks.

[Tugun]

I hope you get to go. Glad to hear that the tumour is stable.

[skischool]

I personally would go for it,though i have also been know to take some incredibly dangerous and stupid decisions during most of my life but i don't regret them,you are in relatively good and safe hands and you know your own limitations.But you must also factor in the current weather situation and also the responsibility you will carry should it all go pear shaped with regard to those that may need to rescue you.very hard decision you have to take and i don't envy you that.

[2greys]

I also have the real advantage of knowing the area extremely well. As I replied to HH I also have full confidence with the coastguard.

[skischool in reply to 2greys]

I was alluding to the fact that the coastguard are taking risks with their own lives should you require being airlifted off and it is they that you have also to consider,but no doubt there isn't much difference between rescuing you and a training exercise so maybe they wouldn't call you wreckless on the day ,and of course anybody could get ill on their holidays

[2greys in reply to skischool]

"and of course anybody could get ill on their holidays" I have seen them quite a few ill people airlifted over the years, drownings and heart attack victims et all.

[Gingerapple]

Glad to hear about the stability of the tumour.

I understand your dilemma! I would consider damp conditions only.....and if it would be too stressful..a great disappointment if you don't go....🤔 A tough call💯

[O2Trees]

If the boat is dry and warm, not damp, then why not? I used to live on boats (2 of them) and people would ask whether they were damp but they werent. I dont know how you normally heat your home but I've had asthma relapses after hospitalisation from an open coal fire many years ago, and I still get breathless with wood burners.

So what kind of heating you will have would be the thing I would be concerned about. If you're happy with that, then go for it - as long as you're warm enough it will do you good.

[2greys in reply to O2Trees]

Gas fired central heating, Jean, nothing like Captain Pugwash's ship "the Black Pig". Ha, now that moment of recall has convinced me that I am fully "compos mentis". Thank you for that, decision made, we are going. (Along with a carrier of meds, and of course no alcohol with abs)

[O2Trees in reply to 2greys]

GFCF, crikey - luxury. Deffo go for it, Im excited for you xx

[2greys]

I will add a footnote to my reply to O2Trees. Just because I have made a totally independent personal decision. I would not want it it influence others, I am not frail and still fit and strong.

[skischool in reply to 2greys]

Don't be so dramatic,we are all adults with sensible minds and know our limitations and are not about to follow in the footsteps of others purely because they are strong minded individuals.

[2greys in reply to skischool]

Not being dramatic at all, but some might think that because I am going to do it, they could do it too. I have been advised not to go at the hospital but of course they do not really know me as a person. Neither do they know my family history

[skischool in reply to 2greys]

I think if your potential followers all decide to go you certainly will need rescuing.the word Capsize springs to mind unless its a considerably larger vessel.

[2greys in reply to skischool]

It would make it a damn sight easier shooting Potter Heigham Bridge though. Wow , yes please! to the best cleanest and quietest area there is, right on the coastline at Horsey also the place where I have actually committed an act of piracy on Lord Nelson's home water's, Hickling Broad Sweet memories.

[chubby2x22]

Enjoy it all . You would be very miserable at any home next week thinking ..we could be sailing. Lol. Jane

[sassy59]

Go for it! Xxxx😘

[Jaybird19]

t Go. If they are happy for you to go then go.

Or you will spend all the time debating what to do and regret it it you dont. all the more precious when you do

Go and Enjoy it.

[2greys in reply to Jaybird19]

The hospital consultants said no, but have no idea of who I am and what I can do. A week to the Broads is a walk in the park compared to what others had done.

If my Great Grandfather had listened to his doctors he would never one of histories greatest adventures and have saved all 27 of his crewmen as well as himself. Rather a great pity that most were killed fighting in The Great War afterwards.

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[Yatzy in reply to 2greys]

Crikey, 2greys, just found this. What a heritage! Good luck with your latest adventure....hope it’s going successfully ⛵️

[Patsy164]

Hi 2greys you will come to the right decision in the end. Good news about the tumour being stable. If you decide to go just listen to your body and rest as much as possible wrap up warm.

[SquirrelsHolt]

Hi there 2greys and firstly what terrific news that your cancer tumour is stable😃!

As for your dilemma about your planned sailing vacation,I agree that mentally it will give you a much needed boost and knowing your son is quite capable to take control,with you able to give advice etc if needed ..... I'm saying "go,enjoy but try to relax and not do too much 👍" . However you could still give us your daily memoirs,as they are such a terrific read. That's if you are being well behaved and taking a back seat⛵. The decision is a difficult one but you will make the right choice.💞

[2greys in reply to SquirrelsHolt]

Currently on a breather from packing and trips up and down stairs as even though discharged from 2 1/5 days in hospital, I am of course still ill with it, and can get out of breathe just talking even. The other problem is how ratty I'm getting, because of the steroids, with everyone around me and more so with myself, so angry that I can't do simple things.

[Oshgosh in reply to 2greys]

You know it’s the steroids that are making you ratty.

You need to rest,give all meds chance to work.

Save your energy for your holiday .

Have a good time ,

[judes]

Life is full of ifs and buts.

My personal opinion is to go on holiday when I was younger sailed a lot on the Broads with my Dad, remember Potter Heigham bridge well. If it was me I would go but I have been known to be reckless, however I have no regrets.

If you don’t go have no doubt you will be sat at home wondering what is happening and that won’t do your mental health any good.

Wrap up well and have a great sail

J

[2greys]

I have no doubt at all that the medical professionals will say it will be reckless, but that does not stop them littering the outside of the hospital with their butt ends! A lot of people say it is reckless to cross the road too.

[Gladwyn in reply to 2greys]

I look forward to reading on this how your adventure is going . Have a wonderful time. You are sensible you'll not overdo it. Enjoy.🚣🏻⛵️

[Jaybird19]

Who are you trying to convince,! Save your breath .. You are not a person who finds it easy to rest and relax I think, but you dont have to emulate your great-grandfather

Do have a great week.

[2greys in reply to Jaybird19]

In no way can I emulate him, but I will say he has been driving force behind all my life to succeed.

[Jaybird19 in reply to 2greys]

yes ,can understand that.

[Thomac]

So glad you are going and selfishly looking forward to your stories. Have a fabulous trip xx

[Johnsel]

I imagine you are on your way now. You have made the right decision as long as you are not reckless and wrap up warm. I think you would be feeling far worse being left at home. Have a great time and let us know how you are doing. Take care of yourself. Love Carole ⛵️⛵️⚓️

[watergazer]

Good news about the tumour. Look after yourself and let your son do the work if you go on holiday. X

[Lemon7]

Keep warm, rest up. Try to do just a little, difficult for you. Enjoy your holiday. Seek help if you feel any worse. Don't bravely soldier on for a change, let others help take care of you x

[Shirleyj]

You'll make the right decision 😊

[Corin1950]

You are a truly remarkable person and I admire the way you carry on your life with such fortitude . You have explained your feelings about this so clearly and I’m sure you’ll make the right decision.

So glad the X-ray showed the tumour is stable.

Best wishes and take care

Corin

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