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Hospice was a nightmare.my father went yesterday they pinned him down to bed shaved him cut hair stripped him and nurse came out and said he was agitated so they gave him Ativan which they already gave him at hospital and almost killed him we had to take him back to hospital .he is there now not doing good.have to take him to another hospice I think.i have got to be honest folks this will never happen to me .I will not allow it I will work hard at maintaining my level but I will not allow my quality of life to go to this level.today will be another nightmare.i am now testing my breathing all the time took me a long time to stop doing that but I'm doing it again even though for the most part I'm fine.fear is now ruling me again.its not all about me here my dad is always on my mind but I just have to get this out.i have never been one not to say what I feel.thanks for helping me I can't tell you how much I appreciate it.i will let you know when my dad is gone.

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sassy59

You are in my thoughts hope at this very difficult time. Xxxx

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Ergendl

God bless you both.

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Bingo88

Thoughts are with you too hope132. Such a worrying time for you BRIAN

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Grayjay

Sorry that this is happening to you. My Father in law went through the same sort of thing a few years ago . It's horrendous and I give you my sympathy if that's the right word.

God bless you all. X

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pegbl

So sorry your going through such a sad time at the moment, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your dad. Xxx

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stamford1234

Your Dad is lucky to have you, remember to take care of yourself too. All the best Hope

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goat-lady

Hang in there. Thinking of you. Best wishes at the tuff tuff time.

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Dedalus

Dreadful experience for your dad. My thoughts are with you both

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Jaybird19

I am so sorry to hear this . I hope you reported this home to the authorities . the hospital will look out for him in the meantime Try to keep calm for you own health sake.

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