Had my test yesterday... given i d become so stressed as to what might be found etc, i d been prescribed prozac.. i approached it with a lot of anxiety. Not least as then theres the waiting game for results.
Still, I d been told a male sonographer would do me as there is a good mix at the Royal London. This is a big thing for me due to scarring and weight.
Got there early...within a minute the nurse in charge shouts me over and says... " you ve asked to be scanned by a male? .. there arent any here.. sorry " so that was a good start in the waiting room for all to hear.
Anyways, i had to have it .. and it was rough as hell. Take your clothes off to the waist and lie on the couch. Very sore on the left side ..she was very rough. I felt I was being punished. Modern scanners like thus should never hurt the operative doesn't need to be heavy handed. I had an Ultrasound in a private hospital in Spain on my abdomen ...had a gown/vest thing with no problem.
Afterwards was left to clean myself up and leave the room.
Why are hospitals not able to consider mens dignity.. - all dignity.There have been scan friendly gowns available for years. Modern transducers dont need to be rammed onto the body. The Royal London is like a palace with shedloads of kit and resources in a massively diverse area of London. It never feels pressured. yet it takes a few snidey staff to undermine everything.
But i wish someone in the NHS would start thinking about the patient. It does not take a lot at all. A lot of blokes suffer it but am sick to death being "grateful" to nurses and docs. Most i have come across are pretty average and am sure a lot of us have heard of bad experiences in hospitals as well as good... I have complained.. fat lot of good it will do me. Thats my rant for the day .. ! now i have to wait for five weeks for results.