I had PP after the birth of my daughter in 2012. My relationship with her father completely deteriorated and I ended up leaving him. 18 months later we reconciled and I have since had a son. Unfortunately PP struck again and although I had much better support this time, I still feel that my relationship has again deteriorated to the point that we have had numerous conversations about separating again. I think that deep down neither of us want this but it is so difficult to know whether the bad aspects of our relationship are due to the impact of the tough ride we have had or whether we are just incompatible. He refuses to go to counselling and basically believes it all stems from my being over emotional, over sensitive and paranoid etc etc.
Can anyone here offer any insight into relations issues after PP and any help they received to work through them?
Thanks in advance x