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A lot of you have given me advice in the past and have read about my current engagement. I think today I may have hit my breaking point. Baby mama drama is just to much to handle. What kind of mother just drops off your baby and does not come back for 10 days even missed her birthday! Every day is a different excuse why she won’t come get the baby. In the mean time it’s been two weeks since I seen my fiancé. Today I got to meet his daughter and spend about an hour with them. But my birthday was Sunday and our anniversary is today and he missed both because of the ex. I don’t think I can keep living this way. This is getting to much to handle I feel like I’m in this relationship alone. I have done everything I can for him and his daughter and I feel I get nothing in return. I had a whole night away planned tonight and I had to cancel because he did not fight enough for me to get the mom to pick up the baby. Mind you he only has every other weekend visitation but she leaves her for a week at a time over and over this time it’s been almost 10 days. How am I suppose to deal with something like this. She is ruining our relationship ruining his life and everything around him he has basically lost because of her. No matter how much I try and help he won’t fight her or go against hurt. They say you fight for what you love but I’m tired of fighting and being alone!!!

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Hi Tiffanny1979, sorry you are going through such a tough time. I know it's not easy to deal with this kind of stuff. Have you suggested spending more time with you even with his daughter? maybe you can all go out together when he has her.


I have tried but mom has final say and she won’t give permission for me to transport his daughter she won’t even let him drive there own daughter she fought the court saying he had siezures and didn’t want him driving. I am always last I include him in everything with my family including holidays and special events and yet I’m not included in his. And the ex is just crazy and still controls his every move even though they are divorced she dangles the baby in front of him like a pawn


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