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Broke up with my boyfriend blues

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I had a huge fight with my boyfriend, which ended with us no longer being together. He did not tell me that he had to go to the urgent care for his back. Then he drove to Marana, which aggravated his injury. He does not think.

I yelled at him on the phone because I went to his work and had to find out from his coworkers that he was not there.

He drove to see me and then he started a stupid fight. I was trying to send a text to someone he knew on his phone and he thought I said something bad. He was reading over my shoulder and had a complete freak out. I did not do anything bad and he still yelled at me. He would not listen to me.

I kicked him out of my apartment and I threw his shoes out the door onto the lawn from second story apartment.

He called me and came back to talk.

We were starting to talk and then all hell broke loose. I gave him back his promise ring and he broke the bracelet I made him and threw it at my head.

I tried to talk to him.

I drove to his house...he lives with his parents and they would not let me talk to him.

I guess he was crying and saying that all women are awful.

He still has his stuff at my place and I just want it gone. I removed all of his existance from my life on my social media and my phone.

I should be crying, but I am just numb.

Tomorrow...I might cry....I just want to move past the depression that is ensuing.

I really do love him, but I guess he does not want to fight for us.

He gave up on us and that is the worst part.

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Sometimes a small amount of time apart helps!A wound won't heal if we keep picking at it :)

Men worry a lot about others seeing them cry, especially ones they love. If you two are in a safe/loving relationship, things should work out!

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I know how tough it can be. Take it one step at a time. First, focus on taking care of yourself—maybe reach out to friends or family for support. Try to create some distance for a bit to let emotions settle. It's okay to feel numb or cry; it's part of the healing process. Over time, you'll gain clarity and strength to move forward. Remember, you deserve someone who values and respects you.

Take care.

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