Tongue Tied.

[gerrerd]

Heal....

[Dolphin14]

Words are sharp knives that can damage people.

Think before we speak

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[gerrerd in reply to Dolphin14]

👍

[primrose81 in reply to Dolphin14]

Yes indeed - the pen is mightier than the sword. Words - spoken and written - cannot be undone.

[Dolphin14 in reply to primrose81]

So true Primrose. Even the words I'm sorry don't help if a wound has been ripped open. The recipient of the words must work through the pain process.

Hope you are well

❤️🐬

[Cherryfizz34]

Nope I rip people apart and then explain myself later. Sometimes it's not the best thing - it's not the best idea. But I heal through talking. It gets me into bad situations that can't be undone. But when I see the person hasn't stopped or is doing the same thing over and over again, they are a bit of a hypocrite. It doesn't lead to great results sometimes. But for me, it helps me heal. Sometimes communication is necessary. Sometimes time for me is best. Don't yell at a person and regret it later. Process my pain and figure out why I'm in pain in the first place. Then talk to the person when I've healed from the pain they have caused me.

I did this recently, thinking that I've healed when I actually didn't and still - my true emotions came out in a video call. It's a ton of evidence online. Therapy helps.

[gerrerd in reply to Cherryfizz34]

Well it seems you know whats what, you can find a way thats right for you.

[Cherryfizz34 in reply to gerrerd]

wait I told you otherwise.

[gerrerd in reply to Cherryfizz34]

Half was OK.