what would you do in my situation? I'm in my early 20s I've been struggling with making decisions as an adult I overthink a lot and let my anxiety and self doubt get to me. I live with a parent but I really am thinking about possibly getting my own place but feel guilty leaving my parent alone but my parent can be overly controlling at times and can gaslight me for example I say I want my own place and talk about it with the parent and get a respond "your going to ruin your life". "you will learn one day". I do not work at the moment and I am a student I'm told to wait until I finish school to move out but I just can't handle the emotional abuse any longer when I am very unhappy. I would really appreciate any advice and maybe someone out there can relate as well thank you.
confused : what would you do in my... - Anxiety and Depre...
confused
Welcome to the community. There are many supportive people here to help you.
It sounds like a tough spot you are in. Being a student it may not be financially safe for you to move.
I do want to say that you should never live your life for someone else. There should be no guilt in leaving your parent to be on your own. This is your life. Your parent will adjust, we all do
🐬
thank you so much. yes I agree it may not be the best for me financially that is also a big thing that is stopping me as well. this has been heavy on my mind for a while because I feel trapped and misunderstood. but yes this is my life I just want to take control of it.
I think it's great you are aware and weighing your options.
I took the leap at a young age. Everything worked out well.
Wishing you the best 
thank you. likewise.
Not what you're looking for?
Moderation team
