i'm panicing and it's just annoying her more. My sister 's getting so masculine. Buying a knife rn. I blame dad

[Against_the_current]

He is missing and this made her act like that. Dressing masc, going to shops with knives, metal and drugs cacessories. Ihope it's just a generation thing and teen hting

[compasnet]

I hope so too. She's lucky to have you for a sister. 🙏

[Against_the_current in reply to compasnet]

I'm scared. I hope im a good sis

[compasnet in reply to Against_the_current]

Of course you're scared, Atc, who wouldn't be? 🙏 You sound like the most awesome sister anyone could ever ask for, to me. You seem like a very special person and should be treated special like the special person you are! 🙏

[Against_the_current in reply to compasnet]

Thanks, i'm just treated terribly

[compasnet in reply to Against_the_current]

You're welcome. You NEVER need to thank me. 🙏 Many hugs. 🫂(((Against_the_current)))🫂

[Against_the_current in reply to compasnet]

Hugs 🤗🤗🤗

[compasnet in reply to Against_the_current]

😊😊😊.😊😊😊

[SoporRose]

A lot of teens do go through phases like that. Not all females are feminine. Your sister may indeed just be exploring her identity or acting like a normal, obnoxious teen.

But because your family is in such a complicated mess, you’re right to be concerned. Compasnet is right: your sister is lucky to have you. Probably the best thing you can do for her is listen. With luck, she’ll confide in you.

Keep us posted.

[Against_the_current in reply to SoporRose]

Thanks. I don't think i'm the best person to rely on and this family concern... I will just hold on that it's a teen thing

[Hidden]

I just hope this doesn’t lead to her becoming violent or hurting anyone. You’re a good big sister. Hopefully this might just be a phase.

[Against_the_current in reply to Hidden]

I hope i am. She was such a sweetheart.