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This week hasnt been the greatest

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I am really struggling at the moment with my anxiety, thoughts, low mood

Iam currently in a very stressful situation not knowing what to do where to turn

Currently feeling sick and confused

I have no friends to turn to i have other medical health issues and really not coping well.

My situation is my mum and my partner do not get on i say partner lightly as there has been quite abit of past behind us and there is no connection there apart from our children saying that he is only staying here for the sake of them supposedly we bicker all the time, he belittles me constantly about my anxieties and depression and mocks me often using my mental state to his complete advantage. (my thoughts) anyhow our relationship is not good i wish he wasnt staying in my home but he wont go he says its for the children but it doesnt seem thats the entire reason. However my mum is in a bad situation right now facing becoming homeless coming out of a not very good relationship of 8years. I want to help her shes mymum of course i do mine and her relationship hasn't always been the e best but the past 3 years have been ok she is not a bad person and always is there for me for anything. Is it 'weird' i'mmature'o r wrong of me wanting to offer my mum to stay with me until she finds her feet? I know they dont get along but neither do me and him it is my house not his but hes sees this as his home. I know of he wasnt around i wouldnt think twice about it and i would have my mum stay with me. She wont be around ian the day time. This is bringing me down so much i feel so horrible towards my mum he is playingwith my emotionsand making em feel like i am behaving childish

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It is very difficult to offer a solution other than speak with your partner about the situation. Set a time line or at least an approximate one so there is no confusion that it is not to be permanent, but also discuss the positives of having grandma so close. I know it may have a very trying affect on the dynamics of the household but family is supposed to be our strength so mom should be welcome bottom line.

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