Control

[gerrerd]

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[Dolphin14]

This is such a struggle sometime. Especially when things come in a row. That's why I like to live as solo as I can. Less heart ache and pain.

❤️🐬

[gerrerd in reply to Dolphin14]

Me too❤️

[Isinatra]

This one is a good one, Gerrerd! I chose solo also for a long time. But life happens when least expected and now trying to abide by the above sentiments. Easier said than done! 😵‍💫😁

[gerrerd in reply to Isinatra]

We must practice, being calm day to day, then when something bites your bum your ready for it.

[Rafiki11]

I love this!

It is very difficult but it’s worth it to get to that place of resilience.

I think of it as being a palm tree in a hurricane instead of an oak tree in a hurricane.

The palm tree feels the winds and is affected but stands up again once the weather calms down.

The oak tree fights the wind and is snapped in two or uprooted.

[gerrerd in reply to Rafiki11]

Yes go with the flow.

[Mustard31]

I wish my self-control and calmness was not just on the surface. I do look calm and quiet but deep down I’m burning.

[gerrerd in reply to Mustard31]

Deep down your inner candle flame must never flicker.