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Stop Judging Yourself! ❤️☀️☮️🌸🌈🧘🏻‍♀️🕉🙏

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“Don’t judge” simply means that no action gives us the right to condemn another person. If the action is not right, help the person to find out the reason. Don’t take the person’s dignity, don’t humiliate him and don’t make him feel guilty.

We naturally judge ourselves because we crave for the perfection which doesn’t exist from the first place. We dwell on that imperfection and retaliate with ourselves and the the whole world. This leaves us with only one idea and that is to find imperfection in everybody.

How we treat others is a direct extension of how we feel about ourselves; how we treat ourselves and vice versa.

Once we stop judging ourselves and accept ourselves, we will be able to accept others also because we will have a clear insight that they are suffering from the same disease. Our accepting them will help them to accept themselves. They learn the beauty of acceptance for the first time; how peaceful it feels and they start accepting others. If the entire humanity comes to a point where everybody is accepted as he is, almost ninety percent of our misery will simply disappear.

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Hb2003

❤️❤️❤️☺️

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

My beautiful little👼 ❤️❤️❤️

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

❤️☺️🙏 this is true it will help make the world a better place more unified ❤️❤️

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

Yes sweetie, be joyful, be kind ❤️. Usually from time to time, hurt people hurt people and you gotta stay strong and be yourself 🤗❤️❤️🙏xxx

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

Yes ❤️❤️

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13ga in reply to GreatMindfulness

hey K...

i know that Hb2003 appreciates your sentiment...

and i'm not 100% sure about this - BUT... i think the use of angel and devil references is discouraged in islam.... i think it has to do with not depicting al*ah (i'm not sure if it's polite to mention the name) or other references close to that.

i'm sure hiba can correct me...

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GreatMindfulness in reply to 13ga

Where is that interpretation coming from?! It’s a simple human psychology.

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13ga in reply to GreatMindfulness

well, K - i need to disagree with you on a minor point... i'm not sure that angels and/or devils are part of psychology, per se....

i think there's a psychological need that maybe angels and devils fulfill.... but i don't think we're born believing in angels and devils...

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GreatMindfulness in reply to 13ga

Where the heck you see angels and devils Rob?! Go Google on Osho see if his teaching is about that 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️There’s only one existence is our existence and our awareness through mediation for peace, joy, love.

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13ga in reply to GreatMindfulness

K - on that point we agree in total!!!

as for where do i see them? i don't see them - but i hear them banging around loudly in my head!!!! LMAO!!!!! :-) ;-)

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GreatMindfulness in reply to 13ga

🤣🤣🤣👋👋👋👋👋😂😂😂

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

Oh yes 👏

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Hb2003 in reply to 13ga

No there’s nothing with it ☺️

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Hb2003 in reply to 13ga

It’s fine if you mention the name 🤗❤️ There’s nothing wrong with angels or devils 🤣🤣🙏😊

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13ga in reply to Hb2003

hiba - tyvm for clarifying... i don't recall where i got that from exactly... but samun rushdy [sp?] comes to mind - i think he got in trouble for pictorially depicting al*h.... maybe he did so in a negative light - and that was the problem... ii'm not sure...

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does any of this ring bells for anyone else?

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Hb2003 in reply to 13ga

Oh god there’s controversy he made a book and people were super mad

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13ga in reply to Hb2003

yes - this is what i remember - and if i'm right - i thought it had to do with depicting god at all; but maybe it's because he did so in a negative way....

i think there were people that declared ji*d on him.... it angered some so.....

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Hb2003 in reply to 13ga

oh yeah but let’s move in to a different subject how was your day?

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13ga in reply to Hb2003

today is a freaking awesome day!!!!!!!

WOOOOO HOOOOO for today!!!!!!!!!

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

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Hb2003 in reply to 13ga

Oh yes ❤️🤗

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Hb2003 in reply to 13ga

Can I slap you 👋

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13ga in reply to Hb2003

hiba - i've said it before, and i'll say it again - you never need ask for permission to slap me - especially if i have it coming!!! ;-)

that's not true for everyone - but i trust you in recognizing when i need one!!!! :-)

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Hb2003 in reply to 13ga

🤣🤣🤣 👋 KoKo is going to laugh super hard

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13ga in reply to Hb2003

i love seeing you guys lol'g!!!

and i'm happy to be the butt of the joke that causes that laughter!!!!

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Hb2003 in reply to 13ga

yesss 🤣🤣

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

I’m hungry, eat first and 👋 later 🤣🤣🤣

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

Ok 🤣❤️ I ate Tilapia today ☺️

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

Oh yummy love fish 😋😋😋

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13ga in reply to GreatMindfulness

priorities!!!! lol :-)

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GreatMindfulness in reply to 13ga

Yes Rob I gotta eat first n 👋 you after 🤣🤣😂😂😂

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

🤣🤣🤣

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Hb2003

what happened hurt me very much I felt so angry at myself people need to understand to not judge other people calling them names and such

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

Don’t be angry. It’s their own reflection upon you. Ignore the rubbish and Be happy always ❤️❤️❤️

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

Yes always ❤️

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

That’s my girl. Love you always ❤️❤️❤️

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Hb2003 in reply to GreatMindfulness

Love you too ❤️❤️

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13ga in reply to Hb2003

hiba - read my reply to you from earlier in this thread: healthunlocked.com/anxiety-...

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stand tall and be proud of who you are!!!

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Hb2003 in reply to 13ga

👋

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Hb2003

I think he started the chaos for a 👋 party 😂

Thank you for sharing your beautiful quotes and insights with us👌🙂🙂. You really demonstrate how the quote has resonated with you so much that you have to share it with others. You put a lot of thought and devotion into understanding the quote and your not just simply posting quotes with very little interpretation and understanding like some sort of quote encyclopedia🤣🤣. If we really wanted a quote encyclopedia we could just use the internet. You can find all the quotes you want🤣🤣. It's almost useless just to post a quote without some elaboration of how it has moved the person posting that quote. It's very easy to see that you're not that type of person and you having something real and true to offer to this site and to the world🌍. Thank you🙏🙏👍👌

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Well said sir. 🤣🤣🤣I would never 🤢🤮a quote. I study it and find the best message to deliver Osho essence. Thank you for your appreciation of my posts and I’m happy you find my messages resonated with you. Everyday we learn about ourselves and that’s a joyful journey. 🤗☮️☀️🙏

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Tillymay

😊I love this it’s so true! 💘💕

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Tillymay

Thank you Tillymay. I hope you have a beautiful day ahead ❤️☮️☀️🙏xxx

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Tillymay in reply to GreatMindfulness

You to😊this has put a smile on my face today!! 💕

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GreatMindfulness in reply to Tillymay

Awee I love that 🥰. Keep smiling, it brightens your day and everyone around you ❤️❤️❤️xxx

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Tillymay in reply to GreatMindfulness

💕😘thank you 😊💕

This is beautiful!!!! I love it, and I really needed to hear this. Great post!!!!!💖💖💖

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Awee thank you G. You’re amazing. Have a great day ahead ❤️☮️🙏xxx

Only my cats are allowed to judge me. 😂😂

I’m team non-judgy. Love the message. 🌺💜

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Very true 🤣🤣 Cats rule 😻. Thank you RoxieDawn01. Have a beautiful day ahead. ❤️☮️🌞🌸🙏xxx

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jessicjames

Such a beautiful and positive post. It is said that the one who don't love himself,doesn't love anyone else in this world. So it is very mandatory to stop judging yourself. And self love is the key to a happy and satisfied life. I think in with the passing time , our minds and thoughts are being contanimated by the environment around. The comparison thing has drive us crazy and has left us in low self esteem.

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GreatMindfulness in reply to jessicjames

You got the gist👍. Thank you J. for sharing your thoughts. It is very true that comparison drives people to hatred and suffer. We need to be joyful and live harmoniously with everyone on this earth. Have a beautiful day ahead ☮️☀️🌸🙏xxx

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