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My sweet angels were officially adopted by another family today as I could no longer financially support their needs. Depression and anxiety have taken away the signal most important part of my life. My heart is broken 💔

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kenster1

oh no that I awful sorry to hear that hopefully you can still see them or maybe get them back again when things are better.

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Agora1

I am so very sorry KCCase. x

It's always hard to lose a pet no matter what creature it is.

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Sillysausage234

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My heart is broken for you. 💔 Anything we can do to help you through this, we’ll be here. 🌺

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Thank you. I’ve never felt this alone in my entire life. They were literally my only remaining family and now they’re gone. I loved them SO much, I will always. I just feel like such a failure and question what there is for me in life anymore. It’s just constant pain and loss.

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You’re not a failure, you did one of the most selfless acts assuring your babies will be cared for.

The next few days are going to be very hard, I’ve been through the loss of 2 of mine now. It might help to move any reminders like habitual things as in feeding bowls, water, etc. away in the next days if you haven’t already.

I’ll do anything I can to help you through this.

I know animals can get really expensive to pay for- that's why I haven't gotten another dog after putting my own down 2 years ago, though they really are the best creatures. Please take comfort that you put their needs first and put them in the hands of a loving family. That's love.

I’m so sorry, but if you can’t care for them, then think of it this way, you loved them so much that you had to do this for their sake. You did a very unselfish thing, to give them a good life. I know they will miss you too. Think of this way, when I knew my wonderful 3 dogs were so sick, I had to put them down for their sake, I didn’t want them to be in pain, or die a horrific death. Last summer 5 hr. before I was supposed to go on vacation, board a plane, my wonderful Cooper, suddenly became sick, laying on the floor couldn’t move, he just had had a checkup the month before. So my husband, and I rushed him to emergency care. Within five min they told us,he had liver cancer, and it erupted all,over his body, by that Monday it would be in his brain. I hit the wall in the room, and said please let’s put him to sleep, I love him, but I don’t want him be in pain. I sat, kissed, and hugged him, telling him how much I love him, he licked me. Then I yelled to the dr. Please do it now,I don’t want him in pain anymore. Your dogs are healthy, they are going to have their needs now. I know this is so hard for you,and must feel very lost, but this was a very unselfish decision for you to make, you are a wonderful person. Someday you will see them again at Rainbow bridge, when it’s all your time to go to heaven.You can look at rainbow bridge poem on the internet. So much❤️,and peace to you, you did the right thing, they will never forget you. 🤗 🤗

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Leawrjet

I found a new home for my beloved labradoodle in Sept 2018 and I still desperately miss him every day. I could no longer provide the active life he needs, so I found a young family to help him live his best life. I remind myself daily that he is well loved and happy and that he does not miss me, as he lives in the present moment. However I am still so sad to no longer have my beautiful boy. I feel your pain.

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alsunseri2124

I am so sorry for you. My Frankie is so vital to me

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Poodie

KCC, I am so sorry for your loss. It was an unselfish and loving thing to do but a very difficult one. I will be thinking of you.❤️

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Luna1988

So sorry to hear that, losing a pet in any way is the most heartbreaking thing ever 😢 You’ve done what you know is best for them which shows you have a loving and kind heart 💕

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