Two Faces

Hi everyone. I am just getting frustrated, stressed and my anxiety level going up today. I have a colleague who has two faces, when I mean two face, other people sees her as a nice, friendly, cool person. Because it's how she talks and behaves in front of them. But when it's with me, I can see her showing me her true colors. Her bad attitude. Her mood swings. When her morning's not good, she talks to me like I am the reason for her bad morning. She's the type that who thinks she's always right. If you don't agree with her. She'll argue with you. I sometimes feel like I am a dumping ground for her bad moods.

Other people doesn't believe me. They think it's just me. But I swear it's not just me who find her attitude annoying and hard to deal with.

I don't know what's her problem really is with me.

I do my job. I am good at it. I am friendly and cheerful to most people. Because I believe I don't have to dump my bad moods to other people and make them involved with whatever I am going through, like what she does to me.

Thank you people. Just need to voice it out. Have a good day!

[fauxartist]

There are people in this world who find their whipping post to vent on. Don't be that person to this colleague ....as they are just that....someone you work with. That level of intensity in a work environment is inappropriate for that person to be dumping on you, don’t be anyone’s commode. Be up front with them and let them know this is TMI when they go off in that direction with you, and walk away....yes....don't feed the beast. If someone thinks they can get away with this behavior...they will....but that does not mean you have to listen to it...If you ignore them and start being too busy for their conversations...they will eventually move off.

[Hidden in reply to fauxartist]

Thanks fauxartist. Yeah. Ignoring them is the best I can do. I have better things to do than waste my time with people like them.