This is not the first therapist to suggest that maybe I’m not meant to be nice. By nice we mean chatty and sociable and keeping my mouth shut when people are illogical. She stated not for the first time I am who God made me.
I have worked on not being brash and on tact and I still make people upset.
I work in an atmosphere that demands that. I was raised by a very logical father. I let others talk about solving problems by going around their elbows to get to their arse. I don’t have time for that. The straightest distance between two points is a straight line.
I have no anxiety about it but later I deal with being depressed I once again hurt feelings and stepped on toes with perfectly acceptable people.
I don’t think this therapist is helping me much.