Judgmental

[dogsmakemehappy]

I don’t know why I keep doing this but I’m so judgmental of my boyfriend. He’s going out today with a friend for St Patrick’s Day and I’m questioning why he wants to drink and get drunk. I don’t know why it bothers me when I see him get another beer or make a drink. I drink socially and drank more in college. Any insight?

[brokenlight]

No insight, but I’m sorry you’re bothered.

[Helpisneededthx]

What is bothering you? That his drinking to get drunk ?

What part of getting drunk bothers you? How are you reflecting it to you?

[dogsmakemehappy in reply to Helpisneededthx]

It bothers me that he drinks what seems to me like a lot. And I try to remember that he’s 6’2 and 225 lbs so three beers is nothing for him. But I find myself judging his decisions to get another. I’m not sure why being drunk bothers me. I’m just so confused and fed up with these thoughts

[Helpisneededthx in reply to dogsmakemehappy]

Put the thoughts on a piece of paper and crumble them. It is okay to have thoughts just don’t make the part of you. If it really continues to bother you. Talk to your bf.