A number of you, along with me, received a nuisance message over the weekend from someone called "lovereal". There was at least one nuisance post on my recent continence blog as well.
These kinds of nuisance intrusions are, I suspect, not uncommon on sites like ours, where registration is not vetted in any way. I will be talking to HealthUnlocked about whether there is anything that can prevent it in future. I suspect that the only way to do that would be to have a system of human approval of new members, which may not be easy to do.
Anyway, sorry for the problem and I will let you know what transpires.