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The interview with #AlexScholz at PCRI.org - Prostate Cancer Research Institute just dropped. It was taped last Nov after the Blue Jacket Fashion Show

It covered my #stageivpca saga starting with that 4.7 PSA in 2010

I may have had a beer prior to it. Alex was great about reeling me in as I tended to Ramble On๐Ÿ˜œ

youtu.be/EYeG3QrvkEE?si=oA_...

I guess I keep on rambling

I'm gonna, yeah, yeah, yeah

Sing my song (I gotta find my baby)

I gotta ramble on, sing my song

Gotta work my way around the world baby, baby

Ramble on, yeah

Saw Matilda the Musical last weekend: photos.app.goo.gl/o1nf94Vhu...

QoL on

Mahalo for the ๐Ÿ’™ and ๐Ÿ™

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yeah Doc - ramble on

I am getting ready to ramble to Peru and Machu Picchu - 2 weeks from today we go up

glad I am alive and doing

Best to you

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dockamโ€ข in reply topjd55d

Yee Haw, have a blast๐Ÿ˜, it's on my Bucket List to do. I hope to be in Yosemite for my 68th bday in May and do Half Dome

QoL on

Hike On

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Papa1โ€ข in reply topjd55d

Would love a full report. Wife and I are scheduled to go in September.

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pjd55dโ€ข in reply toPapa1

sure - as I said - it's a bucket list item. I have been fortunate enough to see some of the big ones: pyramids, Mont St Michelle ( all 400 + steps - there is a cemetery 1/2 way up ... hmm), Snowdonia, Grand Canyon, Rockies, Mystic Fjords ... India and a circumnavigation cruise and ??? are still on the list

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Carlosbach

Loved the interview Doc. You've turned a major life challenge into an amazing hero's journey.

Keep On Making Ripples

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dockamโ€ข in reply toCarlosbach

Mahalo nui loa Bruddah CB, so Grateful to still be here๐Ÿ˜‚

Thinking I'm here for a Reason

youtu.be/fV4DiAyExN0?si=Qmi...

QoL on

Keep on Keepin on๐Ÿ’™

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GoBucks

Rambling Man........keep on

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dockamโ€ข in reply toGoBucks

Mahalo nui loa Bruddah GB and Thanks for the song setup๐Ÿ˜‚

youtu.be/jUTORC4eoGc?si=evh...

QoL on

Ramble On

Handels On

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Mgtd

Enjoyed it. When I noticed this on their site I said to myself I know that guy!

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dockamโ€ข in reply toMgtd

Mahalo, this you? @diii2630

QoL on Brother

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Kaliber

great stuff buddy, great example of fighting and a celebrity to boot. Pretty kewl โ€ฆ. Glad you are on the group representing and showing what can be done. You continue to achieve/ amaze.

Love ya buddy

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dockamโ€ข in reply toKaliber

Mahalo nui loa Bruddah Kal, such a weird confluence of events resulted in the PCRI thingie: guess my participating in ZERO events over the years got me on a radar for the Inaugural LA Fashion Show with the AAPI focus, that led to several Zoom interviews for the show๐Ÿ˜œ

I'm grateful to be able to make that ripple and maybe get a man screened and spare him what we are going thru.

Yea, proud to represent the "Band of Brothers and Sistas" and put my story out there. Still believe that I'm just a pawn on a 4D Chessboard. Were you able to watch the vid?

youtu.be/l0xrJiS4xjE?si=_iq...

How are you and the Hammer faring? I hope you've both have recovered and back to normal

Mahalo Bruddah Kal for the support

Aloha nui loa๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

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Kaliberโ€ข in reply todockam

I watched 5-6 ( forget ) of the videos , torture videos that is Rotflol. Man, that coastal drive never gets old does it. Sure wish I was there, probably gonna try for a few days at the tides pretty soon , but it seems kinda weird to miss the best weather of the year here, for the everyday weather over there. June is a good month for the mid coast, everything is bloomed out. Love that star anise bloom fragrance plus all the star jasmine .

Things continue to improve here โ€ฆ it was a long way down, gonna be just as far getting back, or harder even. Nice 70f mornings help a lot โ€ฆโ€ฆ 71.6 f on my back deck at 10:30 a.m. . Lol Chillax-ing in the jacuzzi .

Love ya buddy

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dockamโ€ข in reply toKaliber

As long as they weren't snuff vids๐Ÿ˜ฑ Or like Red Asphalt?

dai.ly/x2x2pgp

or this:

youtu.be/Y-Elr5K2Vuo?si=OcQ...

All that rain and more coming may bring us a Super Bloom and up here a ton of Ca Poppies

youtu.be/mseCTNzgJ_c?si=5Zn...

I took advantage of the warm weather and hiked in Red Rock Canyon, will post a QoLer later

parks.ca.gov/?page_id=631

Awesome for Jacuzzi action

You gotta plan on a Coastal Trip and cioppino babeee

Mucho Amor para usted๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

Red Rock Canyon and my sticker
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Kaliberโ€ข in reply todockam

Rotflol โ€ฆโ€ฆ itโ€™s torture seeing all that beautiful coastal highway and Iโ€™m not over there. My most favorite real estate . You are right buddy, a coastal trip would be a big morale builder. I can see those giant crab claws in that bowl of cioppino already Rotflol.

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dockamโ€ข in reply toKaliber

Beach Therapy is primo, waves, food, and beers. Another storm this way comes, oh well maybe later in March. At least now it's light later

youtu.be/OgOwQvNzD-k?si=O0x...

Can't wait for a trip to Fresno again

QoL on

Cioppino
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Kaliberโ€ข in reply todockam

Yummmm โ€ฆ. Yummmm. Tides resort cioppino with big ole crab claws โ€ฆ.

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Cioppino with claws
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dockamโ€ข in reply toKaliber

Nom Nom. Go get it Kal, book a room for when it's warmer and get on up

youtu.be/BCCkb6k_aow?si=u9f...

In the interim, there's this buy.taylorshellfishfarms.co...

Cioppino on

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garyjp9

Thanks!

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dockamโ€ข in reply togaryjp9

Hope that you were able to view it ๐Ÿ˜, some crazy azn blah blah blahing๐Ÿ˜œ

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garyjp9โ€ข in reply todockam

Halfway through it. You have a hell of a story!

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dockamโ€ข in reply togaryjp9

Mahalo Bruddah G, such a crazy tale, a semi-charmed life too.

youtu.be/beINamVRGy4?si=1Kv...

Blessed to still be here and lovin life

QoL on

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j-o-h-n

youtube.com/watch?v=WnB8bnF...

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n

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dockamโ€ข in reply toj-o-h-n

Mahalo Bruddah j, totes forgot about that song!!! youtu.be/ya6z2KmM264?si=9VX...

QoL on

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Hey Randy about time I joined here lol.

Not again. Your gettin more than your 15 minutes lol.

Really enjoyed it. A large part of it is my mind going "that's Doc Randy".

The last time I heard you talk was in a video when you were visiting your mom and I was struck by your vibe. You'd fit right in with my wife and I, my family.

Thanks for bein you brother!

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dockamโ€ข in reply toCAMPSOUPS

Mahalol nui loa CP, I'm stealing sunshine from others ๐Ÿ˜œ

youtu.be/E1fzJ_AYajA?si=elH...

And LoL, there's that #stageivpca guy again, what a media ho๐Ÿ˜‚

Well, sounds like I'd fit right in with your Ohana, we gonna have to meet someday, maybe with Kal and The Hammer

youtu.be/fiNXtZj3ezA?si=eXC...

QoL on CP

Aloha nui loa๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

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Its all good but as funny as media ho is rotflol we gotta come up with something more apropos to you, being your the guy who's guy who's the source of the ripples lol.

All of us gettin together. Yeah a pipe dream of mine for some time now for sure. Even just you gettin together with the hammer and Kal vicariously satisfied about 50% of my pipe dream ha, ha, lol. Yeah kinda like when you have a dream so realistic that when you awake it seems like it really happened, a real memory. Whoa. I guess I'll keep that previous sentence in here anyway lol.

Keep up the good stuff brother. And thanks as always.

Oh almost forgot. Don't you dare come to the twin cities without letting me know lol. I gotta let you know that just in case ha.

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dockamโ€ข in reply toCAMPSOUPS

Hmmm, the Rippler๐Ÿ˜œ, Aloha Spreader, Touched by a Chino, QoLmaker, Dream weaver, Yellow Peril, Doc on the Block, Kam I am

An HU get together could happen, but probs y'all gotta come out to CA as traveling for Kal is a huge undertaking.

youtu.be/w_inXx-J3nU?si=AaR...

Hmmm, Twin Cities - that could be doable

QoL on Brother๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

Dream it
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CAMPSOUPSโ€ข in reply todockam

Those are all funny! None quite get the definition of your ripple spreading though except us here get it lol. Somehow gotta get you and the ripples in a name. Its a tough one.

Maybe its because I'm in a mixed race marriage with a son who went thru some "stuff" from time to time growing up but those were hilarious: yellow peril, touched by a chino lol.

A west coast trip. Always enjoyed trips there, think often of it and possibly getting to hook up including of course the hammer and brother kal too. My wife has been behind it for awhile so there is that little extra that might push it over the edge but we cant make any firm dates yet. We're still trying to get back to our old Chicago stomping grounds for a visit these 4 years in twin cities. Only a 6-7 hour drive. I guess I've just been a little unpredictable lol. I am however quite stable in my unstable condition if that makes sense, these days lol.

The dream poster you posted reminded me of a writing I found at my moms after she passed away from cancer. I saved it. Even though I didnt have cancer at the time it made sense even for someone getting older.

Age does not limit the goals that are set or hinder the convictions of heart.

Time does not halt values that are kept or place a limit on when you can start.

I've written you a book rotflol.

Cheers brother. Thanks for you kind thoughts, compassion and PM me anytime.

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That Youngbloods Get Together was always a favorite of mine. Still good!

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dockamโ€ข in reply toCAMPSOUPS

A great friend, an ex PCa group staff, Vanessa, called me Randy Ripples.

youtu.be/ztYUgYCa190?si=R3X...

She was in a few of the pix in the beginning of the PCRI Vid. She did the last 10k with me on my 150th marathon at the OC Marathon. We've done 1/2 marathons together too. I did this as a goodbye from her job to pursue a degree in Family Counseling

photos.app.goo.gl/itpho5vkD...

Oh, yeah you have a Hapa kiddo, it means half in Hawaiian and use to mean 1/2 Hawaiian, but now means 1/2 Asian or Polynesian.

My five Hapa kiddos in the pic, except for the lady next to me, Wendy's married to Kev #2 son with lil Olivia who was born months after the #stageivpca Dx.

That's me in the corner with the chemo head, just finished the 15th chemo a couple of weeks earlier

Well, there's this happening in LA this Sept pcri.org/2025-conference ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

My daughter Zoe was in Chicago for Law School at U of C. What a great city, of course I did the Chicago Marathon. Goose Island will give you a free beer if you bring your bib in

photos.app.goo.gl/pbho6LDhj...

We stopped and saw a show at Second City and stopped for a beer at Anthony Bourdain's fav Chicago dive bar theoldtownalehouse.com/ and had a Malort

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jepps...

chicago.eater.com/2016/5/2/...

I love the "book" that you penned, looks like I did a book myself

youtu.be/OS1LFGGGazc?si=scd...

Age does not limit the goals that are set or hinder the convictions of heart.

Time does not halt values that are kept or place a limit on when you can start.

Sage words Brother

youtu.be/LG9ifoI9dNw?si=Pg8...

๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

2015 Kam Kiddos
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CAMPSOUPSโ€ข in reply todockam

Randy Ripples. Yes but again doesnt fully define it however for all us brothers and sisters in this tribe that might be good enough lol.

Those are some great pictures and videos you replied with. Your daughter is special. Truly. And maybe ironically or small worldish my son completed law school too but at the U of Iowa.

Man when you were in Chicago you hit all the places lol. If we had met up when I lived there I don't think I could have shown you a better time. Do you want that Italian Beef splashed or dunked? lol.

I think I told you before I would have really loved to have lived in Hawaii for at least some of my life at the least. So much a melting pot, mixing of cultures creating the best of everything. When I told you about my son being mixed I wondered if you'd come back with a Hawaiian word similar to the Japanese word. Sure enough kinda lol. In Japan its hafu (HAfoo).

I would like Vanessa. She seems a great supporter and human being.

So many great family pictures you shared here. The Christmas one with all the kids and you in the corner looks a bit like our Christmas's these past several years. We still use the tiny cheapo tree we bought when we first came back to the states and our son was little. Its very nostalgic. We love it and he and the grand kids do too.

In a jiffy just pickin a couple pics. Son and grandkids.

Love our daughter in law too but I just quickly snagged these pics to post lol.

Grand kids are older than the on the couch pic. All the pics are in our place our son snagged for us in the height of covid 4 years ago.

I'm JiJi (casual way of saying grandfather)

My wife is BaBa. It all works for me lol.

(I looked up BaBa to make sure I had the spelling and saw some definitions that were in error. So here's where we get JiJi and BaBa from:

Some Japanese children call their grandparents by the nicknames Jiji (from ojiisan) and Baba (from obaasan). Unlike grandparents in many other Asian cultures, the Japanese do not have different names for maternal and paternal grandparents

Keep the faith brother.

Aloha, love ya man,

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kiddos
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CAMPSOUPSโ€ข in reply toCAMPSOUPS

Their havin a good time

their havin a good time
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CAMPSOUPSโ€ข in reply toCAMPSOUPS

good old christmas tree

There's probly at least one person thinkin I'm off my rocker posting a christmas tree this time of year lol.

good old christmas tree
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dockamโ€ข in reply toCAMPSOUPS

From Left:

#3 son Lucas with wife Jen

Wendy ansd #2 son Kevin with Olivia and Isabelle

Sam (Zoe hubs) and Penelope

Zarina, wife of #1 son Bryan - far right

#5 Zoe, then Bryan. Bry and Zarina are in London, they both did the 2019 Camino Frances 69 miles for my 5th yr with #stageivpca

photos.app.goo.gl/usm3QKzRZ...

spanishforcamino.com/2019/0...

youtu.be/U37cChUfHk0?si=iKT...

Luv ya Bruddah Camp ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

Ohana Kalikimaka
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dockamโ€ข in reply toCAMPSOUPS

youtu.be/7j7rcSutYAQ?si=sk7...

Good Times
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dockamโ€ข in reply toCAMPSOUPS

Hmmm, The QoLinator, Keeper of the Flame, Love Spreader, HUman Touch, Aloha Boi, Sunshine Superman

youtu.be/zRfcMn1TVAM?si=9AE...

youtu.be/85cNRQo1m3A?si=i-5...

youtu.be/iY91ClURQJQ?si=qL9...

youtu.be/AQndU3hm-5k?si=Oyh...

Yea, Zoe out-achieved her 4 brothers๐Ÿ˜†.

Had done several trips to Chicago, the 1st in March 2015 with Zoe for a Tour of U of C Law. Hadn't told them about PCa yet, was waiting for better results. We stopped at Lake Michigan just to look and got hit by the insane wind/cold. After her tour we went to the Navy Pier and then to maybe Bubba Gumps for beers and crab

photos.app.goo.gl/Bc1heZXQB...

Also went up the formerly Sears Tower

photos.app.goo.gl/AHpjJU735...

Think the Beef was dunked๐Ÿ‘ What kinda Law does son practice? Zoe was doing corporate stuff in NYC.

7 years ago Z and I went to Vegas/Grand Canyon for her Spring Break:

photos.app.goo.gl/3MSAQHjxh...

My grandparents came from Southern China, maybe Guangdong. Supposedly G pa got a mail order bride sent out to Hawaii๐Ÿ˜œ

A huge melting pot or a stew of Cultures in Hawaii. Pidgin English was a way that was developed to communicate, now we use words from the different peoples.

youtu.be/O7X9AAeDCr4?si=bre...

And the mix brought about the Plate Lunch: two scoops of rice, Mac salad and some protein: Chicken katsu, Kalua Pork, Kalbi beef, Char siu, Pork cutlet, Roast Pork, or adobo

rainbowdrivein.com/menu/

My kiddos are 1/2 Chinese, 1/4 Irish, 1/4 Puerto Rican. Hafu sounds like a Japanese version of half๐Ÿ˜†

Was like 2016 ZERO Long Beach race that Vanessa, race director, emalied me that I had won 2nd place of the Survivors and sent me a medal. And it was:

youtu.be/8bDGVCCKQgg?si=NTn...

Great pix of Mo'opuna (Grandkids in Hawaiian)

In Chinese Popo is grandma and Gung gung is G pa. Funny how those grandparents nicknames are two repeated syllables, maybe cuz easy for kids to say. Hmmm

Me ke Aloha Pumehana - with Warm Love๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

youtu.be/YWcFnN77-sM?si=OiU...

Laters Brah๐Ÿค™

Zoe and the Mo'opuna
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Orange95โ€ข in reply todockam

Lovely family!

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dockamโ€ข in reply toOrange95

Mahalo nui loa Sista, so many reasons to keep fightin. Zoe has mostly recovered from the emergency C-section, Benjamin, taken out on 02/18, is growing well for a premie, still in NICU. A huge concern about brain damage from lack of blood flow and oxygen - have to see how much damage as he gets older ๐Ÿ™

youtube.com/watch?v=MDt1wjs...

QoL on

My best to you both๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

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Orange95โ€ข in reply todockam

Good luck to your little fighter! I hope he grows into happy and healthy man. He has such a wonderful family to help and support. Thank you for updating. My husband and me are going for few days to see our kids in Edmonton. Daughter and her husband got new home, our son is there too, he is first year university and staying with his sister for now. Gonna celebrate our March men there. My husband is turning 55, son 19 and son in law 27.

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dockamโ€ข in reply toOrange95

Mahalo nui loa, lil Ben will be loved and well cared for and here's to your Men's Bdays:

youtu.be/vbJNjRoaIws?si=9hn...

Safe Travels

QoL on

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Orange95โ€ข in reply todockam

Thank you!

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dockamโ€ข in reply toOrange95

You're welcome and Have a Blast

QoL on

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CAMPSOUPSโ€ข in reply todockam

Beautiful family and talk stories. Love it Brah.

Busy day today and I know I cant write much now but just wanted you to know I'll be back later lol.

Our son is about 20 minutes away. Going over to visit and then drive over to see his first in his life house purchase. He doesnt get the key until April 2nd but going to go see it. An invite from our daughter in law to have dinner too.

Life in the cancer fast lane. Not feelin so good today but going to go anyway. Feeling better as the hours have gone by this morning though.

Beautiful sunny day here despite the temperature in the 30's. That's helpin me out.

Enjoying the talk brother!

Peace out for now.

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dockamโ€ข in reply toCAMPSOUPS

Awesome Bruddah, ya gotta get over the activation energy level and once you do then smooth sailin and major QoLing with the Ohana

youtu.be/e5MAg_yWsq8?si=KSD...

I'm sure that y'all had a Blast, post pix if ya have any

Sunshine is excellent medicine and an Anti-depressant, tho 30's is not for me. We had snow earlier this week, but today it got to 63 - so I was able to get a long hike in. Got rain coming tho, I want Spring๐Ÿ˜†

youtu.be/C8RlWHi5Gkk?si=GMM...

Keep the Faith

QoL on and say Hey to the Missus from me

Aloha nui loa๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

Snow Day
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You're an inspiration Doc! Thanks so much for your work and energy. You make a difference. And your video is wonderful.

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dockamโ€ข in reply torosenjpj

Mahalo nui loa my Brother, and you're welcome and my pleasure to QoL and uplift/inspire.

A long and winding road..

The vid was the recitation of the screenplay of my 10 yr saga that has been told over and over.

Talk Talk

youtu.be/cFH5JgyZK1I?si=675...

QoL on

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You're a blast and you make me smile. Good on ya!

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dockamโ€ข in reply torosenjpj

Mahalo Bro, life's too short to be a jerk

I'm Mellow Yellow๐Ÿ˜œ

youtu.be/RfaNi3WrTC0?si=tgc...

QoL on

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