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My father passed this morning after a 5 year battle with advanced PC. I wanted to let you all know how much I’ve apreciated being a part of this forum. The info and support helped get me through so many hard times. I’m so sorry for all of you going through this and know you’ll be in my prayers . My dad was my hero. He was a warrior and he fought to be here with us for as long as he possibly could. Thank you all

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Darryl profile image
DarrylPartner

Deepest condolences

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Ahk1

My Deepest condolences

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Tall_Allen

I'm so sorry to hear this. I know it's been quite a bumpy ride, especially lately, for both of you. That constant state of emergency wears down everyone involved. At least, that part is over; but now the grieving begins, which may be worse in some ways.

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Nusch

My deepest condolences.

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6357axbz

Thank-you Sg

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dockam

I'm so very sorry to hear of the loss of another Brother from d*mn PCa

Rest in Peace sir, and suffer no more

Hugs from CA

Stumpgirl I’m sorry, so sorry you lost your Dad, this is terrible news!!

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Lyubov

With sympathy & comforting thoughts to you and family.

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Kiag

Your Dad was so very blessed to call you daughter. I am so very sorry you both said goodbye this morning. I am sending you love and hugs from Saint Paul, Minnesota. Please take care and reach out when you need to.

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TylexGP

So sorry for your loss. I am sure your Dad is smiling down on you.

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dico

Stumpgirl, so sorry for your loss.

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Proflac

Sorry to hear your sad news

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Metaldraft

You were so fortunate to to have and celebrate his high and lows and ultimately the love you both reciprocate. Thank you for your caregiving close relationship’s.

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NickJoy

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself.

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timotur

God rest his soul, and God bless you for helping him so much.

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GreenStreet

So sorry to hear your sad news. Please take care of yourself. You have given so much

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MMK-XFuture

Very sorry for your loss. Take comfort in knowing that your father is now free of suffering. May he rest in peace.

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Wongle1

It’s soo very hard you and your family are in my thoughts xx

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Schwah

I too have a daughter that helps me thru this journey. She goes to my appointments and does research but most importantly she is there for me. Going to lunch and calling me every day. Laughing at my stupid jokes. She is my best friend. I tell you this so you know that I am sure your dad felt and wanted what I want for my daughter. He was so appreciative of all you did while he was alive. You can never fully understand how much it meant to him. Don’t play the “what if” game. You did your best. Take some time to grieve but begin to live your own life again to its fullest. That I promise you is what he wanted for you.

Schwah.

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Schwab, your heart felt thoughts to stump girl made me cry, every word so very true! ❤️

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Bronzee

I am so sorry for your loss . Condolences to you and your family. May he rest in peace. May you find comfort in the thought that he is no longer suffering….

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Bebby1

My heartfelt condolences … yes he was a warrior , but more than that he was your precious dad.Look after yourself 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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Ashikpong

My condolences please. God give you the strength to bear the loss 🙏

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E2-Guy

To Dad's loving daughter! I've been following your posts and it is obvious that Dad went through hell on earth. He was so fortunate to have you by his side throughout this painful journey, but now he is resting in peace. We all have to leave this world, some sooner than others; however, in Dad's case the suffering was most likely more than most people could endure. I have always said that my major concern is 'how' I pass, not when. I am so sorry about what both of you went through during these last few years and only hope that you find comfort in knowing that Dad is no longer in pain.

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Steve507

May he go with to a better place..

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Flash64

Sorry for your loss.

My deepest condolences 🙏

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Realistic

God bless, my Dad was my hero too, my love & hugs to you. No doubt you have lovely memories of your wonderful Dad try and think of them it helps SheilaFxxx

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Fight11

My deepest condolences!!! I’m so very sorry for your loss. May your Dad Rest In Peace.

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Sisira

My deepest condolences.

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addicted2cycling

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spolyu

Deepest condolences

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pozitronij

Sorry for your loss. Now your dad is at better place

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Runner4000

Thank you for letting us know and for your kind words. He was fortunate to have such a loving and caring daughter, and you are fortunate to have had a father you loved so much.

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Grumpyswife

Sorry for your loss. He is at peace.

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lcfcpolo

So very sorry for your sad loss. What an amazing daughter you have been supporting your Dad. Please take the time to grieve and look after yourself.

My condolences from across the pond in the UK.

Graham

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Haniff

My sincere condolences.

Take care

Haniff

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inthefight

Our deepest condolences ♥

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Tiger22Warrior

So Sorry for your loss!!

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NOCanceros

Your father will R I P

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Lasered

So sorry for your loss.

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larry_dammit

Words can’t express the sorrow at a time like this. RIP fellow warrior 🙏

May the peace of God comfort you.

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hopeful1956

My sincerest condolences. :(

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KocoPr

Im so sorry to hear another fallen warrior has passed. Thank you for your thoughts of us going through this.

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Istomin

My deepest condolences.

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Pianodude

I am sorry for your loss. Peace to you and your family.

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Beachcomber8

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Sending you my deepest condolences and prayers.

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Blueslover

So sorry

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wagscure259

So very sorry for your profound loss. Praying for God’s peace, which passes all understanding, for you and your family in your time of need.

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Hailwood

You did so much for him and your love was a big part of how he kept going. My deepest condolences

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Cabingammiex6

Your Daddy was blessed to have you by his side. Prayers for comfort and peace for you and your family💝

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Boywonder56

In time may smiles from good thought replace the tears of sorrow......bw

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DesertDaisy

So very sorry for your loss. Know that you did all you could for your father. May God now give you peace, rest and healing.

Kay

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Faith1111

The worse part of being here is getting news like this. It can be a heart wrenching journey. Sounds like you loved your dad very much. We never forget but we learn in time to live with our grief. God bless and take care of you Stumpgirl.

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Devtony8

Praying for you and your family.

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Billy_Boe

I am so sorry for you loss. We are all fighting this together.

May your heart be filled with wonderful memories of your hero dad.

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old64horn

I'm sorry for your loss. May he rest in Peace

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joeydashoe

Prayers

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duwa

My deepest condolences.

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BanjoPicker

I am new to this community. But, I can see by the comments that your father was a warrior with a loving and proactive daughter that 100% was a blessing to her dad. So sorry for your loss.

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Cooolone

I'm so sorry to read this and learn of your dad's passing :(

Another warrior falls, the line is weakened, momentarily, but those of us left... stand fast, arm in arm, forever strengthened by the memory of those who have gone before and their battle stories! I hope peace may be there for you and your family now, and God's blessings. My most humble and heartfelt condolences to you and your family!

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Tonwantonga

My condolences. So Sorry for your loss.

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16S4

Deepest condolences to you and your family.

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lincolnj8

So sorry for your loss. Sending prayers

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NWLiving

The guys on this site are amazing. So glad you found it. You are going to miss your dad. He really did put out all the effort. So did you. Great daughter. (((Hugs))) to you.

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monte1111

So sorry. Wishing you the best going forward. Monte

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Muffin2019

So sorry for your loss, may God heal and comfort you.

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Carlosbach

Praying for you for strength and comfort.

Your dad was your hero, but as a dad with a daughter who is committed to support me, I am confident stating that you were his hero as well.

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tsim

I was just reading through your fathers history, a long and rough road for sure. My condolences and I sincerely hope he left you with some of his strength and courage.

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Kaliber

Echoing all the wonderful posts above me, my most heartfelt condolences for you. Your father was very lucky to have such a loving daughter. A big warm hug out to you . 🌻🦋🌸❤️❤️❤️

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Brundo

My deepest condolences ❤️

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j-o-h-n

Dear Stumpgirl, Your dear hero Father was a member of H.U. for five years. I know he has found his peace and has your love living in his spirit for eternity. You have been a wonderful daughter that each one of us would love to have. God Bless your dear Dad, you and his family and friends. "Life to the Living"...............

j-o-h-n Monday 07/18/2022 2:26 PM DST

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Cateydid

I’m so, so sorry for your loss.

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Tmetz

I am so sorry

Thank you for letting us know . Thank you for advocating for him here. My Dad had APC and also was taken over 23 yrs ago . My hero . Not a day goes by that I Dont still love him . Love is eternal ! Our fathers are at peace now . God bless them ! 🙏💔💔🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊

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Ylwhorse

May he rest in peace

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Currumpaw

Dear Stumpgirl,

At the time when you, perhaps, are feeling the most intense sense of loss, you took the time to inform us, on this site, of your father's passing. Thank you.

We never "get over" the loss of a loved one. We learn to live with that loss as best we can.

It seems to be a bad bargain that life and death has handed us. As enduring as my grief has been with a loss of my own, I wouldn't trade not having had that person in my life to avoid the pain of separation that death brings.

Be good to yourself now. Family, friends and clergy can be helpful--and sometimes not. At times we need to be alone to let our memories of what had been, help to blunt the pain.

Your father was so lucky to have someone like you as a daughter. Sometimes after a loss we think that perhaps we could have done more. That in some way we are somewhat to blame. That is such a human mistake--and many of us have made the mistake of somehow thinking we are in some way responsible. Don't do that. I have done that. It is just so human to do so.

Be careful driving, walking and so on. Grief can dull our awareness.

Currumpaw

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rosenjpj

Gob bless his memory and thank you for supporting him through his journey.

ocman profile image
ocman

Really sorry to hear this...

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Sanctus

I am very sorry to learn of your father's passing. I pray that his soul rests in perfect peace!

Sanctus

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mike__c

I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you for being there for him as an advocate.

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CSHobie

I'm crying for him and all of us warriors here. Wishing you all the best, I am sure your dad appreciated all you did. No doubt that he is very proud of you.

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Hohman

So very Sorry for all his and your struggles...I wish you peace!

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Bunkerboy

My deepest condolence for your loss🙏🏻

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garyjp9

May God rest his soul. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

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cancerfox

Truly sorry for your loss. You did everything you could, and I'm sure your father appreciated it immensely.

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fmenninger

Sorry to hear about the news. Deep condolences.

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HopefulSis

Stumpgirl, so sorry to hear of your dads passing. He was blessed to have such a loving, caring daughter. You’re in my thoughts and prayers

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jfoesq

I hope your pain is diminished by knowing that your love and care certainly eased his journey in dealing with this disease. Condolences!

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grahaminator63

So sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you and your family.

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Omairtde

So sorry. May he rest in peace.

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kcareer

So sorry for your loss. May his soul rest in perfect peace.

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blueseas45

Sorry for your loss. Prayers

Metaldraft profile image
Metaldraft

I for one and many glad the precious time you bestowed and the the commitment of following trough these trouble times but the love we all need in this journey

God bleed you

spolyu profile image
spolyu

Deepest Condolences

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