I'm a sneak!
This is how it went: Jane was over last night, and she agreed to review your posts, but I HAD TO READ THEM ALOUD. So, I did. Her, my wife, and I, with my son going in and out of the room, were there.
First, I want to thank everyone for their kind posts, and Jackie in particular, for the comedic side. As I read, my emotions were all over the place, some smiles, some tears. I went straight through from the beginning, only stopping for some side chatter.(read as re-reading) But in the end, Jane was the only one who had no clue as to what you were all talking about. What she get out of the whole exercise, was this: What about the guy who rides his bike 20 miles a day?
Well, we know Dr_Who has a an odd ductal PCa, and I think he's not quite two years into his journey. At two years, I too was feeling no pain, I was working, and all too often, working a bunch of overtime. It wasn't until I had been Dx'd, and not told about a blocked bladder, that put me out of work. I recovered from that nightmare this past January. I dealt with that for three years, I thought I was going to die, I was that weak.
So, my final conclusion is that Jane is an idiot. The evening ended with a huge argument between Jane and I. She left all pissed off, my wife didn't say a word. I feel vindicated, thank you all.