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[RN20]

Hello, I am new here, I found out at 36 that I have ADHD and realize most of my emotional problems all my life were because of that condition and that I have a crohnic depression because of that. I never accepted and I realize I am in the same spot for a long time and I want to go out... Its time to change everything!

[RN20]

And since I start taking Concerta, I am with a severe depression, that I cant manage and I think I did my whole life... Every day it looks worse. I read that Concerta can make you feel depressed but what to do?

[BlessedLady in reply to RN20]

You need to tell your doctor. There are other medications your doctor can prescribe. Sometimes it can take a while to find the right medication and/or combination.

[RN20 in reply to BlessedLady]

Thank you!

[Olderbutmaybewiser]

I am 51 and recently realized I (and my whole family ) have ADHD after my son was diagnosed at 20. Both of us are "high functioning", never really "hyperactive" except in our minds. We are both learning about how our brains work (we always "got" each other) and how to cope and develop strategies., and. sharing with each other. I am so excited about having a reason why I always felt I wasn't reaching my potential - because now I can! My meds (Vyvanse and dexampehtemine) have helped with anxiety and focus for some things. I need more tools and strategies.

I was on anti-depressants for "depression", binge ate and drank too much (both issues are now basically gone with the ADHD meds - I've lost like 40 pounds , still eating properly but not binging anymore!!). At one point I thought I had bipolar disease as I was trying to figure out my slumps (depression due to not feeling I was thriving probably) and my highs (hyper focus).

[RN20 in reply to Olderbutmaybewiser]

Yes, thats it! I already tought I had bipolar disease too. Now, with this ADHD med I just feel very depressed. In the beginning I was feeling great just like you, when I found out the reason why I was felt like I did my whole life but now... I just feel hopeless.

[Hominid711 in reply to RN20]

Hey RN20, You've felt depressed before the meds didn't you? I am on both, antidepressant/anxiety meds and Vyvanse. Whatever came first, if mood disorder followed ADHD or both came along with my other DNA and independent of each other is insofar irrelevant as I function best and feel most content and "myself" on both meds. The only really important thing left for me to conquer is procrastination. I have a feeling eventually I'll be able to manage but maybe only when I retire and have more time. Maybe never. Ideally I have people sorting stuff for me. I know that sounds preposterous but I can't even envisage getting a coach or a tool. My brain must have said no to anything dull a long time ago.

Sorry, back to you. I am happy there are meds that work. For me the preferred option as I can figure out most things I need to be happy with the help of family and friends. Having said that I also strongly believe in a good therapist having had one 20 years ago weekly for a year. I believe I still benefit from her input.

[Hominid711 in reply to Olderbutmaybewiser]

You sound a little like a replica.

[Hominid711 in reply to Hominid711]

Sorry, I mean I am YOUR replica ;^)

[Olderbutmaybewiser]

my kid needed to switch meds as Vyvanse didn’t work for him. It worked for me though when I got to the right dose. Didn’t work at all until I got to 50mg.

[Macweb3000]

Hello RN20,

It is nice to meet you and welcome to the community. First off if you feel depressed ALWAYS tell your doctor no matter what. But I am curious you ahev such a great attitude towards this diagnosis which is very refreshing. What's your plan of attack to shake things up?

Sincerely,

Brian Weber