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My research over the last month had led me to learning about codependency. This morning I watched the video below and was crushed by how much it fits me and my wife. It is almost like the perfect storm, My ADHD + My Addiction issues + My Childhood Abandonment issues+ My Wife who also shares some codependency traits = my brain is going crazy. I really just wanted to share because it does help to type it out.