Where do I start...

[DistractedGuitarist]

This is going to sound very general but, where do I start? I was diagnosed with ADD as a kid but was always told it would go away as an adult but Things have just always seemed harder for me than most people. Like I have to try harder to do basic tasks. I stumbled upon an ADHD community and it was the first time I ever felt understood. How can I get my life back on track. Im a man so Its hard for me to ask for help not to mention I get anxiety about admitting I struggle with stupid things. I just have a hard time with life in general and have dealt with sever depression because I just wanted to feel normal and always felt like I had to act like I was on the same wavelength as everyone around me. Any type of advice or just a friend would help. I dont want to post my whole life story on here but my bio is pretty much that and will probably explain why I dont have many friends anymore. I just want to be accepted. im tired of feeling like im weirder, clumsier, and slower than everyone.

[blueorganic1021]

Hello DistractedGuitarist and welcome to the community. I am confident that you will find you fit in perfectly with this group. Most, if not all, of us have lived our whole lives the same exact way.

I personally just received my diagnosis of ADHD and I am 42F that has always struggled to feel “normal.” I have been on Strattera now for several weeks and I have seen a slight amount of improvement in my symptoms. My doctor and I are still experimenting with the correct dosage for me.

Honestly though, for me so far, just finally getting a formal diagnosis and actually knowing what it is, has been paramount because now I am learning so much about ADHD and about techniques to use that can help me to manage my symptoms perhaps even more than any medication could, so I am very thankful for that.

It is also very helpful to be part of a community of people who truly understand what you are going through and that is exactly what you have found. So once again, welcome, and feel free to be yourself, ask questions, reach out if you need help, or if you just need a friend to talk. We are always here for you. Sending hugs your way. 😊💙

[Shnookie]

Hi. It’s Shnookie. This is the perfect place to discuss these issues. I come from a family of macho men so I can understand what U said, BUT a real man can reach out for help and advice. As far as I can see our group here is not judging people’s genders. U will be greatly admired for coming

out with things that R bothering U.