Struggling with frustration with a child who has not been diagnosed with ADHD but who shows some symptoms and has a hard time listening. He is 5 yrs old and in kindergarten. This past yr has been rough because his teacher has spoken to him in ways that make me uncomfortable. Always seems to blame him. I feel very alone and powerless. I tried to advocate for my child but the teacher isn't sure he has it and I am waiting until 1st grade to see if a different teacher dynamic and his age will change a bit. I need to seek an outside assessment from a developmental pediatrician if I am still concerned he has ADHD in 1st grade, which is also very costly. This wait and see business is very upsetting.