Well the good behavior was short lived. We went to a dinner with my grandparents, my mother and my other son. Evan was asked if he thought he could handle it or if he would like to stay home. We like to give him the choice. He chose to go so we laid down ground rules that he had to behave and be respectful. We were fine until we got to the restaurant. He had his phone and was watching cartoons and standing at the table (everyone was sitting) but he was quiet. My grandma saw him standing as being disrespectful and she told him to put away the phone and sit down. He argued with her and then ran off and sat in the corner for most of the dinner. She called him back and proceeded to ask him questions like “why do you act like this? You need to figure it out because it is becoming a mental illness” and it went from bad to worse at that point with him yelling and at that point i had to remove him from the restaurant. I dont think my grandmother understands it. It was quickly escalated and on top of that it was hurting his feelings. He asked me if he was mentally ill. I didn’t know what to tell him. Any feedback?