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Non working for over 20 years

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I haven't worked outside of the home (aside from being a mom and wife) in over 20 years.

The thought of even handing out my resume would pull me into a severe panic attack.

This last year though a local store in my city opened up that I knew id be really good at.

(Raw pet food store)

I was able to overcome my anxiety and fear to hand in resume. Unfortunately that was back in

August.

They informed me that they're not actually busy enough for hiring others but also I know they are

not going to survive on solely depending on the raw food aspect. I have suggested other things they

should look into that pertain to animals and possibly even advertising for local pet sitters/kennels

in the area but they have not sought my advice.

I felt so good being amble to overcome those scary feelings, I even decided to hand my resume into

my local corner store.

That was back in October 2022, I have called them bimonthly to check in but they always say they

are not looking right now.

I have FAITH that I will be able to get a job but I tend to take these as signs that the timing isnt right.

I DONT need work because I need the money as the money would just be an added bonus so I am

able to be quite picky on what type of work I consider.

With both my kids older and not needing me as much, having something other than house to focus

on would be a welcome deed

Thank you for reading my vent

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Hi Shera79,

In my experience, the timing for these things may never seem just right.

As long as the timing is not awful, you have to just go for it.

My advice is to keep applying consistently until you get a job offer. Quantity of applications does matter. Treat job hunting like a part time job.

Good Luck with your job search & I hope you find a great job.

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