but i dont know how much longer i can cope with him being such a horrible person , he bad mouths just about everyone , never has a good word to say about anyone . Its like the whole world owes him . He hardly ever changes his clothes , and he has to be told to have a bath , i buy him certain food which hopefully will make him put some weight on but gives it to the kids the moans he has nothing , i dont know what to do anymore its making me so miserable . Am i being selfish ???