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Ideas for New Years Resolutions

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A friend posted this on Facebook and I really liked these ideas and wanted to share with all of you.

23 Manifesto Rules for the Year.1. Stare fear in the face. So often fear stops us. Instead live fearless - knowing when to stop and when to move and when to be brave.2. Invest in your friends. Good friends listen and show up. Do the same. Friendship is give and take and give and take. Friends are the ultimate gift.3. No excuses. You must take care of yourself: heart, body and soul. There is no excuse for forgetting you. Your family needs you to love you with the same tenacity that you love them.4. Guilt doesn't need to dictate choices. Don't let guilt stop you from taking care of yourself. Guilt keeps one stuck.5. Read real books again. Watch a mini-series. Start jogging. Do something that is not work, not chores, but simply that makes you happy.6. Love your body. Your aging body. Yes, that. And stop lamenting the wrinkles, but embrace them as another year lived.7. Don't short-change yourself. You are amazing.8. Listen more, judge less. Comparison is the death of contentment. Instead of judging, be happy for others.9. Slow down. Hold hands more. Say "yes" to one more book. Let them get the gum in the check out line. Just be present.10. Create margin in your life. That space in-between the busy and the crazy where you can just breathe again.11. Don't be afraid of "no" and trying. The worst that can happen is that you brush off and try again.12. Be proud of yourself. Like really nitty gritty proud - of all the showing up and trying and giving and little things you do that matter so greatly.13. Give to others. Maybe it's not money or time, but sometimes it can be grace extended.14. Be straightforward with your words.15. Love well. Love without fear. Love unconditionally.16. Forgive. This. Over and over. Grudges destroy, forgiving brings freedom.17. Fall seven times, stand up eight. Don't lament the falling - celebrate the standing.18. Learn from your experiences and mistakes. They don’t need to define. Sometimes those spaces of experience make us real and in the real spaces we forge connection.19. Take risks. The biggest risk for me in life is the risk of not trying. 20. Mindset, mindset, mindset. What one thinks truly is what one believes, what one becomes. 21. Be adaptable. Life can change in an instant.22. Love others deeply. For who they are, for there courage, for their story. Kindness and love are priceless. 23. Be a learner, but don’t let learning stop you from taking action. You have to start. Try. The only way to walk (or run) a thousand miles is to complete mile one. So be brave. Start. Begin. ~Rachel#findingjoy PS: I originally wrote these at the end of 2019 and have been adding on with new lessons learned. original words by Rachel Marie Martin of Finding Joy

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Gingerann1

thank you for these…. I was just telling a friend yesterday my resolutions have gotten down to “just let me be alive to celebrate one more Christmas”….your list is uplifting and practical and doable. May you achieve all you set out to do in 2023! Thanks again for sharing.

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love2golfwell in reply toGingerann1

You are welcome. Hope you are able to fulfill all of your hopes and dreams for 2023 as well.

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jersey-jazz

Dear love2golfwell ------Thank you so much for this! It certainly comes at a time where my life could be tipping in a multitude of ways. I woke up this morning feeling like whatever they throw at me, I will roll with it, tai chi style. Your list give me the practical ways of doing it!

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love2golfwell

I'm so happy to hear this list is helpful. Hope you will only be thrown good things in life. Sending hugs.

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hurricaneheather

thank you for sharing. mindset, mindset, mindset! live fearless.

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love2golfwell

You are welcome. Yes, mindset is as important as the medications and everything else that is positive that we do to heal.

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bracelets1

Thanks for sharing - these are great words to live by- And like @Gingerann1 stated....doable! Blessings 💙

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LDR1

This is great! Thanks for sharing :-)

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Shafight

thank you so much. I love this

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love2golfwell

You are welcome! Hope you are doing well.

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Kruza

Thank you for sharing. I am copying this.

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