Hello all. One of my older brothers was diagnosed with liver cancer summer 2021.
Unbeknownst to his siblings, he was drinking heavily the past few years. It caught up to him with this diagnosis.
He lives in Brooklyn several hundred miles from us. We didn’t see him during covid so the alcohol abuse was a surprise. He’s been scared straight so to speak
When I saw him in August I was pleasantly surprised at how he looks. He is 69 and otherwise seems ok which is remarkable given everything.
He’s been sober since his diagnosis. Supposedly, if he remains sober for several more months, he might be a candidate for a liver transplant.
He is single and his young children are far away in another country. He goes to AA and sees a counselor at Sloan Kettering starting this week. He gets lonesome he admits, especially now that covid is surging in NYC again. His usual group of friends is unavailable as a result. He is definitely sad and depressed. I am supportive but far away and not a trained counselor.
I would like to add to his support services. Specifically, I would like to see him join a group like ours. It’s such a good support system. Being available 24/7 to vent is a nice option.
I looked online but didn’t find a good liver cancer group. I’m reaching out to you because you have many good ideas.
Much appreciated