I'd have to place myself in the shower category and I would probably swap to the grower side of things. Would be nice to have that extra bit when it's hard and ready to go. I can definitely see both sides positives and negatives.
I don't think we are ever too old for change especially if something we are insecure about. Unfortunately we are our own worst critics and we all have something that someone else would love to have. I'd bet even as a grower you show more than you think just like all of us in the opposite category. Thank you for sharing
And as a shower I only grow about 3/4 of an inch between soft and hard in length. Most of my growth is in girth, just to put in perspective to the growers.
Curious to see how much change a grower would see if anyone would be willing to share.
I can see your point but at the end of the day the only size that matters is the one your using to please her. And sounds like she really enjoys it. The shower like me is just that...more for show and not for grow.
I'm happy to be a grower. When it's not in action, it's reduced in size and not a nuisance or an inconvenience when in motion.While a slight bulge is ok in shorts etc anything more pronounced could be embarrassing and attract unwanted attention!
It must be really annoying folding away your bits as a shower when running or doing sport, not to mention finding comfortable pants.And let's face it 99% of the our time we are not aroused so reduced in size is convenient.
Plus as growers we get a front row seat to witness the miracle of human bio-hydraulics...from soft to hard can be quite a transformation for a grower!
There are benefits and drawbacks for both so best to be philosophical and accept what we are and enjoy the pluses.
As a shower I completely agree with you! Seeing that dramatic of a transformation has to be a great experience. There are benefits to both sides mentally and physically. Thank you for sharing!
definitely a grower here, happy with what I got though. I like to think that being a grower is probably more comfortable than being a shower when it comes to day to day life.
All that matters is your happy with what you have. There is positives and negatives to both sides but being able to have a bigger transformation when it's needed is definitely a plus and I'm envious for sure
Grower. Wouldn't mind a switch. But when it grows it's good
Would be cool to be able to swap just to see what it's like. I'd love to be a grower for a day. But as long as your happy with it is all that matters! Thanks for sharing
A big time grower, when not in use its tiny, so small I struggle to use a urinal standing up.But when hard it is wide enough and long enough to give my wife an excellent and orgasmic ride on it.
I believe that this is the best outcome, sleek like a dolphin when I swim and surf but effective when it is used for recreational and procreational sex. (I have 3 children)
If you want to impress the guys with the shower type in the locker room then good luck with that.
Being able to give her an orgasm and keep her happy is all that matters. As a shower I do agree that it's most valuable state is when it has a purpose and that is being hard. Thanks for sharing
The only satisfying thing I get of being a shower which can be done as a grower too is getting a blow job beginning when soft. Something about that has always been a huge turn on for me and maybe more people as well. But after a little bit it's back to its most valuable state as said above. Kinda digressed and sorry if TMI but figured I'd give the strongest positive to me personally being a shower, and not trying to impress anyone in the locker room.
Unfortunately it's nuts how much low T can affect us physically and mentally. Glad it's back to working order and sounds like it has been working overtime lol. Congrats on losing the weight too!
Low T weight related and liver related also anti Ds kill libido.My nmol 26 now was 8.5 feel like im 25 again big time morning wood that needs attention lol
after years of being convinced by my ex I had a micro penis... I now know that I do not have a micro penis.... I am definitely a grower and love it... would I like to look like I'm packing more when not hard? Of course but I wouldn't change it
Bit late to the party, but I'm a grower. 3.5 ins soft then 6.5 to 7 erect, depending on the weather haha.Sometimes think I would like to have more to show soft, especially on the nudist beach, but I've got what I've got and it works that's the main thing
Thanks. I'm happy with what I've got now. When I was younger thought a bit more would be better, but I had a friend who was huge and he sometimes found it to be a handicap
I think we all have wished we were bigger lol. I think either extreme have their advantages or disadvantages big or small. As long as we are happy with what we have is what is important.
I just noticed this topic and have to say I’m a grower. Depending on weather conditions and blood pressure it’s been as small as an innie (so maybe a negative inch?) during a cold, rainy marathon potty break to maybe 4” flaccid but it grows to a comfortable “nearly” 7” and about an extra half inch when I’m really excited. One thing I realized in the past couple of years is a wonderful side effect of being on a double dose (8 mg) of Flomax apparently turns me into a show-er, so yeah, definitely not shy about taking a shower at the gym anymore. So while I was envious at times at least I get to experience it both ways. 😜
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